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Okay I don't have that much experience in relationhips. Really none. Recently though I've started dating this guy, I'm 19, he's 26. He knows he's the first guy I've ever dated, he was my first kiss. We've only been dating a few weeks. He says that I'm the first "good girl" he's ever dated, and is constantly asking if he's going too fast or if something makes me uncomfortable. We haven't made out yet, we only really give each other pecks on the lips. We've cuddled multiple times, and he's grabbed my butt three times.
He sends me good morning messages every morning and goodnight messages, and he's changing his work schedule so we'll have the same days off. And I've asked him if he's okay with the pace we're going at, and he's said he is.

But I was talking to one of my guy friends the other day, and my friend asked if I'd given him a BJ, or had sex or anything with him, and I said no. He said that I should at least give hi hand jobs to keep him interested. But It's not that I'm against having sex before marriage or unwilling to give oral. It's just that I don't think I want to with him yet, it feels too since. Is this slow bad?

My daughter turned 15 in December. She came downstairs and told me and her father that she had sex. I have never seen her with a boy, and she's never had a boyfriend (that we know of). I laughed and was like oh really and when did you do this and who was it with. She said she lied last month about when she was supposed to be sleeping over at her friends house she actually went to this guys house and spent the night there and had sex. She said she doesn't know who the guy was and he moved. Her father and I don't believe this one bit. She was describing it as painful except the oral part was awesome (she tried to go into more detail and my husband stopped her and told her to cut the shit and doesn't believe it). I have no idea if she's trying to piss us off or why she even brought this up to begin with. Unless this is something teenagers do? I don't know why she would bring it up to us though? We don't believe it but could she be telling the truth?