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For the past month I have had a casual relationship with a very pretty girl. After the first time we had sex she said the next morning that she only wants to have a "casual relationship" but be "exclusive" sexually. The first time we had sex was the second date and she said she wanted to "get to know me".

Well, about 5 weeks later we have been going on sex dates combined with hanging out socially without sex.

I feel that after a month of having sex and going to fun events together that she is gradually moving toward a relationship mindset. But she keeps dragging this along to only hang out once per week.
Please note.. When I asked her out I sent a text at work that said, "Hey, so I've got to run soon. But you are quite a fine Date. :) So naturally I'd really like to hang out again. When are you free?" Her reply was, "Aww shucks. Yeah, you too. :p I'll be back in town tomorrow and I'll have the weekend pretty open. There are a few events coming up this weekend that seemed interesting."..

There were two different options of events that we were going to choose to hang out together at. One was a Friday night and the other a Saturday. They were dating options that she had brought up. I offered to go to both but let her choose. She said, "Let's maybe do the fair thing, I think there may be a more social drawing event in a week or two." Then she text'd me later, "By the way, if you ever want to learn an easy way to do your own paintings from photos, I can teach you :p So then you can decorate with your own work."

She was making a reference to me telling her that I planned to decorate the walls of my apartment. She remembers the details of things that I say.

Is this a good or bad thing? Am I just her fuck buddy with benefits? And if I am just a sex buddy, why is she planning non sex events for us to go to together in the future?