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Me and my girl have been talking for about 4 months now. It's a long distance relationship. We're both still in high school. She's about to be a senior (just turned 17) and I'll be a sophomore (about to turn 16 real soon) Long story short she plays volleyball and I do wrestling. If we both did our sports this coming up year we would hardly be able to talk bc our schedules would overlap along with school work and it would be so hard and I just can't let that happen bc I love her so much. I was a varsity wrestler as a freshman with a guaranteed spot on variety next year. She has been on varsity volleyball for 3 years and we both LOVE our sports. we love it and they make us happy. So awhile ago I told her that I didn't want this relationship to drift this coming up year so I told her I would give up wrestling so we could still talk. And then I tried to get her to quit volleyball and it didn't go over so well. She claims that she can't quit and she loves it too much and it makes her so happy bc she's good at it and she enjoys it. But I'm the exact same way with wrestling. I love it. But I quit for one reason. To talk to her. and it makes me sad and quite frankly gets me angry bc she won't quit her sport even though I'm going to quit mine.

HER OPINION: She says I'm being selfish bc I don't want to support her in her sport and I don't want anything else to make her happy except me.

MY OPINION: I say she's being selfish bc I quit my sport and she won't quit hers.

In all honesty I am a little selfish with relationships but I'm really trying to change for her And I did bc I quit a sport that I was great at. I got second place in regionals and it was only my first year ever. And I dropped it for Us to be happy together. Sometime I get sad or angry even when she goes 2 practice and I'm scared for what might happen when school starts.

I just need some advice on how 2 feel about this situation. I really want us to work..

Any help is appreciated.

Thank you.

I live in a very small town and I'm about to be a freshman and really like this girl that's becoming a senior this year and I've known her since she was a sophomore. We are both in band together and we always sit by each other on the way to football games and to competitions she always laughs at my jokes and she says I'm attractive but I don't know I really like her and we get along together so well and have been great friends and I am more mature than a lot of seniors at my high school. PLEASE HELP!!! Should I try and see if she really likes me or just let it go and forget about it. PLEASE!!!


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