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My boyfriend got me a 200-300 dollar Christmas present & he is tight on money it's the first time he had a good portion of money to himself & he spent that much on me He calls me beautiful every day & he only hangs out with his friends on the weekends sometimes only 2 nights a month He mentioned this girl named Kate when he was drinking one night & he got in an argument with my cousin's husband because her husband is a pill head and shoots up. Well he got mad & didn't want to talk anymore so he started saying he slept with my cousin, and her sister, just to piss off my cousin's husband. I made him go home with me because I wasn't going to let them fight cause my boyfriend was drunk & her husband was sober. He told me he wanted to have sex with this girl named Kate. I didn't make him delete her off Facebook, but we argued about it. The next day when he was sober he apologized & said she was ugly, that he was just mad about what happened that night.

Well he went drinking the other night with his boys & things went weird & I had to go pick him up off the side of the road drunk as hell Well he was threatening to fight my cousin's husband again & my neighbor and said he was texting my neighbor so I checked his phone, ready to fix anything offensive he said to my neighbor but I saw he had been texting Kate. I knew I shouldn't look, but I couldn't help it. When we got home we got in an argument because he was asking her to hang out that night I deleted her from his phone & FB & he got mad & I told him I was breaking up with him if he added her back or spoke to her again. (we live together) He got mad & tried to leave, but I wouldn't let him because he was drunk. I told him to stay the night then he could get the F**k out if she was more important than me. He told me he'd never love me & never did but he eventually calmed down & finally laid down. I wasn't crying or anything, I was actually shockingly fine with breaking up the next day. I wanted to. I got on my ipad & began surfing the net when he got closer to me & wrapped his arms around me. I firmly told him to let f**king go of me & he refused, he then told me I was more important than her & that he'd never talk to her again even though his friend was apparently the one wanting her there because he just became single & wanted to have sex with her or her friends, & he was so romantic that night he kept saying how much he loved me & kissed me for ages He still hasn't added her back, & he nagged his friend for getting him in trouble. I don't know what to believe. He's never texted any girls like that before, & he usually ignores ones who message him. I am not jealous of his female friends, I want to meet them. I joked about him getting kate to make him food because I didn't want to today & I said too bad he didn't have her number, he responded, I have it right here. pointing to his head & recited it! What the hell? Should I be mad? He said I shouldn't because someone else's number is that backwards..

Say in this situation your husband cheated on you with another woman and the woman became pregnant. Instead of leaving you decide to stay with him and work things, because you have children and he says it was a one time mistake and will never happen again. You say OK, but your one condition is for him to never see the other woman or her child again. He agrees.

However a few years later the whore and her bastard child come at the door and she is ranting and raving about what a deadbeat your husband is and that she doesn't want the child anymore and hates the kid. She is very unstable. Your husband tries to restrain her however she is unruly and refuses to leave. She slaps her own child across the face, and drunkenly blames the kid for ruining her life.

She then goes on a long rant about wishing the child was dead and how she should've had an abortion. Of course by hearing all this the child is in tears, and is sobbing on the ground bleeding from the hard slap.

The mother then proceeds to call the child a mistake and then kicks the kid. Your husband intervenes again and tells her to leave and take the child with her. She then screams that she doesn't want the child and taunts the little girl saying, "See nobody wants you. I don't want you, your dad never wanted you and I f***ign hate you! I hope you end up in foster care where you get gang raped and turn out to be crackwhore!"

Your disgusted by all of this and call the police. By that time she runs off and leaves the child crying on the ground.

What would you do?

I understand that many of you would leave your husband if he cheated but say in this scenario you decided to stay.