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I'm trying really hard not to be naive. I work with this man, and I admittedly find him attractive and have a crush. He's very kind and quiet. He stares at me all of the time, like he's keeping tabs on me. He comes up to my desk a lot and asks me how I am or just says hi. Before, he was very subtle and I'm sure nobody noticed.
But lately, he's been doing it in front of his coworkers, and he's also been standing very close to me in front of others like he just doesn't care. The other day, I was talking to another guy that obviously has a crush on me, and the guy in question walked past and gave the guy the dirtiest look I've ever seen. Today as he was leaving, he stared at me with this smile on his face for a few seconds, while his coworker was standing right there and watching.

Everyone knows he has a girlfriend. He's been with her for a couple years now.

What's the deal with him? Does he just not care that his coworkers know he has a girlfriend and is flirting with someone else? It doesn't exactly look good... I know he loves his career and wants to move forward.

Do you think he's actually having more serious feelings for me? Or am I being naive?

(Really feel like venting since I have no one else to vent to so here goes)
My boyfriend wants to beat my ex up & I’m pretty scared & worried because 1. I don’t want him getting expelled 2. He’s broken his knuckle for me before, I don’t want him hurt again & 3. Although he’s my ex I don’t want him getting beat up over me

The reason why he wants to kick his ass is because my ex tried talking to me again (haven’t talked in a year) he apologized to me, I accepted it, then we went on to talking & he started bringing our history back up.. long story short he was talking dirty to me, I let it happen because I was hurt since me & my boyfriend fought the night before and he wanted to break up with me, he wanted to meet up but we never did because then me & my boyfriend made things right. The guilt was eating me up so I told him about it. He was heartbroken & made me show him everything.

It was a one time thing I hadn’t talked to him again, but the other night my ex hit me up again & said he was home alone & wanted me to go over. That’s when I told him I couldn’t do that or ever see him because me & my boyfriend are getting serious. He said “not even once?” I said nope. He said “ouch”, but then told me to hit him up whenever. I‘ve ignored him since

So I told my boyfriend about that because he said if he bothered me again to tell him. He told me he’s always hated him even before we were together, & he knows how much my ex has hurt me but I moved past that.. But last night he told me he was gonna beat his ass & now I can’t stop thinkin about it.. I’m really worried, I told him not to, but knowing him he will, I don’t know...