Search Results: was i too pushy

Girls, serious question about approaching and chatting, the thing that gets me and I'm sure other "not-so-experienced" guys?

I can open a conversation with anyone about anything. I can talk to a hot person, a CEO or anybody I want. But when it comes to speaking to a girl to get her number (or more) I have a bit of a problem, and I think I...

Scrambled

Explorer Age: 43

She Said She Wasn't Ready.. When To Talk To Her Again?

I started dating/talking to a girl over a month ago. We got along great. We both had a lot in common. She was great.. one of a kind. First few dates went great. The fourth date I brought dinner to her place and we watched...

VHDude78

Xper 5 Age: 38

Trying to figure out the whole long distance thing?

My boyfriend is older than me by 11 years and he couldn't find a job in the small town we were in to save his life despite being very qualified. So I pulled some strings and got my mom to let him stay in my brothers old...

TeamFreeWill

Xper 5 Age: 33

How to ask girl for second date while she's this busy?

Both of us have conflicting, super busy schedules. Our first date was literally from 2am to 6am in the morning. I had to literally call her and say 'let's do it!', but as far as how the date went it was a 11/10. She's...

auljackoftrades

Xper 5 Age: 38

Guys/girls what actions and behaviors in someone you liked scares you away?

after responding to another girls question on how to get a guy to stop liking her, she admited she actually wants to know in order to keep him interested in her. so, I got curious what actually scares guys/girls away....

thewanderingme

Guru Age: 43

Why do some girls on dating sites agree to date but then ignore you once you give your phone number to them?

Not every girl has done this, but I've had a few times lately where I'll talk to a girl on a dating site for about a week or so and then I'll ask them out and they'll say yes. But once I give them my phone number for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Females, what are some of the honest reasons you reject a guy or feel disinterested in him?

For me… 1. No physical attraction. I don’t believe in that ‘preference’ BS because it genuinely feels unintelligent, foolish, and premature. Life has so many delightful varieties that to have preference is to be...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm too emotional, how to deal with it?

Hi guys, I'm in a relationship with an amazing girl, we like each other and all, we really complete each other and I asked her for mariage and she said yes and now we are getting married soon. However, I have one issue...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If things get further, should I tell my current gf I'm a virgin?

We've been exclusively dating for about a week now (bf and gf that is but yes we were dating for a while back) and not sure if this is something that is going to come up. No, she's not a virgin. She's the complete...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Men: Do You Think Women Waste Time? Why Do You Think They Do It?

I'm 24 years old. Throughout my life, I have come to see that women are time wasters and bullshitters, which is why I have a strong mindset when it comes to women. -If women do not text me back within a day or 2, they...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm 24 years old. Throughout my life, I have come to see that women are time wasters and bullshitters, which is why I have a strong mindset when it comes to women. -If women do not

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How to ask my girlfriend for nudes?

I want to get nudes or at least one from my girlfriend. But I don't know how to ask without sound too pushy or at least if she doesn't want to send them then a way to let her know that I want them.

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

What Should I Do if A Girl Doesn't Call Back After Leaving A Voice Message?

I have a good friend that I have known since high school and I have been helping her out recently through the work I do. She is very sweet, funny, beautiful and she is currently a single mom with a three year old...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I confront the guy I've been talking too?

So I've been talking to this guy and he says that he likes me a lot and I like him too. Recently he told me that he liked me a lot but he wasn't ready for a relationship but he still wants to talk. When he said that I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He doesn't text back after showing interest?

So I met this guy in a bar. He was working behind the bar and we made eye contact quite a lot. When I ordered a beer, he said "It's on me". Before my friends and I left, I gave him my number on a piece of paper. He...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My bf's friend came on to me?

I met a guy at a bar in August, he pretty much lost the ability to speak when he saw me and his friends didn't know what was up with him, he managed to tell one of them that I was the most beautiful girl he'd ever seen....

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I tell him I want to be with him with no strings attached without offending him?

I have been with a guy for four months. For two of those we were seeing each other two days a week. Then I started to get feelings, told him aboutbut he didn't say anything about how he felt. We kept seeing each other but...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Should I talk to him? Or am I being too pushy?

So the guy I'm sort of seeing at the moment sent me a message the other day saying that he's having problems at the moment and that he needs some time and he hasn't been able to talk to me. It's been 2 days and I miss...

KerryJC

Xper 5 Age: 30