Search Results: competitive guys

Am I a girlie girl or a tomboy?

I don't really feel like I lean to one side... I hate high heels, I prefer to wear comfy clothes, but I do like dresses. I don't really like to paint my nails, I generally wear mascara/eyeliner and occasionally some...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I don't really feel like I lean to one side... I hate high heels, I prefer to wear comfy clothes, but I do like dresses. I don't really like to paint my nails, I generally wear

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Maybe I should give up on finding a decent guy?

I think I have given up on guys now. I am not attracted to girls but it makes me so sad that I keep falling for guys who are douche bag. I also found that guys think I am submissive but once they found out that I am not,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to lower a guy's defense mechanism?

If a guy is a nice guy with no manner, how can I get him to lower his defense mechanic? He seems like he a competitive/badass type when his friends/classmates are around but he is really nice when he is alone. When I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do competitive and macho guys like to pick on my guy friend?

My guy friend is a classmate and he is nice and really honest. However, because he is my friend in class, he gets tease or comment from other macho type. I don't know if I should have to defend him but it seems like any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Are guys jealous or is my friend a beta type?

OK, guys are picking on me and my friends (most indirectly). It seems like once I am great friend with a nice and down-to-earth guy in class, some of my competitive classmates poke fun of us or make some off hand...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why do good people get screwed over for the hot or bad person?

This is my opinion but good people get screw over a lot of the time (well that is what I noticed). Anyways, I realized that most guys see me as someone fun and funny to hang out with which I really do appreciate. I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why do competitive and alpha type act tough but?

Choke when the situation get tough? There is a guy who when he is around guys act really tough and either rude/loudly make fun of actions or ignore me but when he alone, he just a softy (really helpful and nice). His dad...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If this guy is seeing a hot girl, why is he being rude to me?

This classmate is so weird. He is a popular guy and is dating a hot girl but when he is alone with me, he is really helpful and talkative. when there are other guys around he ignore me or make loud jokes at me or off hand...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to get a popular guy's attention?

He's a musician and surrounded by lots of girls, we've been hanging out and calling each other too much lately, he's so caring and sweet but with it's starting to turn competitive because of all these girls around him......

Anonymous

(30-35)

What are the possible reasons that a guy become nicer/helpful to a girl?

If his personality is competitive and he wasn't very nice when she first met him?

Anonymous

(36-45)

If a guy change personality, what can be said about him?

If a guy was rude but then turn to nicer/helpful/friendly, what does that means? Say he is in his 20s. I am not sure if I am misreading him but from what I understand and see - he is very competitive but can choke or be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do guys act or sound goofy when they start liking a girl?

I am noticing my classmates are acting weird and I am not sure if it just their personality coming out. One guy keeps on being competitive with me but notice when I dress up or not. Another guy like to sit next to me and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

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Have black men fallen behind?

I was chatting with my best friend (a black female) today about dating and whatnot. We got on the topic of her dating life and basically, how she doesn't have one. She told me it's because it is so hard to find a young...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why are you so competitive with each other?

I got this from a web site thought the girls would enjoy answering and the guys would enjoy reading :) Why are you so competitive with each other? Guys don't care who has cooler shoes, better hair color or a more...

Elisha22

Xper 7 Age: 35

How can I tell a shy guy likes me & would be interested in me?

the guy I like is really shy but is really sweet. we have known each other since we were in first grade & we have gotten closer in the past year or so. I asked him to be my escort for my sweet 15 & for the year of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Anybody here have problems with being extremely jealous/insecure?

Hi, I am a 23 female and feel like I am about to go crazy because of my insecurities and major tendency to get jealous over the smallest things, (probably moreso lately). I feel like my period of being depressed has...

LonelyandInTheDark

Xper 4 Age: 37

Health & Fitness

Guys, what do you want to hear from your girl when you just lost your game/match?

My boyfriend plays football, tennis, and basketball/wrestling. I on the other hand am the academic one who hasn't played a competitive sport since pre-school days. I've come across a problem whenever he loses a match or...

HGR15

Xper 5 Age: 32

Feminism: Is it just me or.....??

I'll preface this by saying that I'm all for gender equality, 100%. I don't think women should be at any competitive disadvantage not caused by nature. They're equally capable in the work force, and should be paid and...

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