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We only got together on this year September and I'm furious when I found out from my boyfriend that he and his ex broke up last Dec and had friends with benefits all the way till this year July. The sex occured only till this Jan, 1-2 times. From Jan-Jul she just helps him with bj. They dated for 4 years previously. Before we got tgt, he and his ex meet up almost everyday and text everyday. After we got tgt, he and his ex only meet up once a week and still text daily but not as much as last time. Their texts are normal, non-flirty. However after we got tgt they have no more friends with benefits. I'm conservative and I find it hard to accept the way he settled his past. I felt like he did not have a full closure of his breakup. He's really sorry about what he did out of lust. I forgive his past but I still can't accept their friendship now.

If you're in my shoes, will u be furious about it, or just chill about it? Will you be okay having your partner remaining close friendship with an ex with FWB?

Yesterday, my boyfriend decided that we shouldn't go out anymore, and wanted to be friends with benefits. I agreed, because i had been wanting to tell him that we werent ready for a relationship yet, and i was completely okay with it. Everything seemed to at least be going okay; i still didn't talk to him in school, but we chatted on snapchat and video called and all that. But just out of generosity, I decided to text him on sc, and ask how he's doing. But comes to find out, he has un added me as a friend, and im shocked. I know i haven't said or did anything to him, and a lot of times, i would never be able to hang out with him outside of school because of my parents decisions. But there were signs. Lots of them and i should have taken them. I felt like i was being used, and manipulated, and i should have dumped him from the start when i started seeing signs. (nothing to do with cheating btw) A lot of times i felt lonely, like if he was the only other person i could talk to, i didn't want to because i knew he wouldn't fully listen. So what should i think? Was it a joke, or was he really playing? Was i stupid? Or is this not that serious? Should i confront him, or leave him alone for good?