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I met this guy online, we reside in 2 different but neighbour countries and we haven't met. We started getting romantically involved with eachother he told me he loved me and we would have Skype sex often I'm the first girl he has ever shown himself completely naked to. We talked EVERY day on Skype and exchanged I love you's OFTEN, but due to insecurities I jokingly flirted with other guys to see if he was really serious, and he didn't seem to care much. He acted as happy as usual to me but suddenly he ignored me for a whole week.
I then deleted him from all social medias as I felt he wasn't invested, I told him this and from there we stopped contact.

We then got in contact again, and he told me he had been stalking me everyday and was really devastated he couldn't aplogize for ignoring me, but his jealousy made it hard for him to know how he should react and he WAS really jealous and stuff. We were skyping and suddenly he started to cry, and I asked him what it was, he kept apologizing and finally showed me he had cut himself and told me he did it because he thought I would never speak to him again and that I didn't care. He promised he would never do it again.

Things were evolving, it seemed great but again even though he didn't ignore me, he never seemed to initiate, it was ALWAYS me. So I told him I thought history repeated itself and we're unappreciative of eachother, and instead of asking into it or fighting for us he would just say "I see where you come from. I do however appreciate you a lot... but respect your decision a whole lot. Can we at least be friends?" I tried that for a week, and he would be even more distant now only replying hours later if I did write him, so I deleted him again from everything because I could not bear to be just his friend (and I told him this before I deleted him, as well as apologized for being clingy)

He could still contact me through other sites if he want to, but he doesn't. What is this guy feeling/thinking?