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We lasted 6 months and we both had thoughts of it lasting forever, all her past relationships had been ended by her and never lasted more than 3 months, she always said i was special and different.
She stare at me and say "you are just too good to be true" and we connected on a deep emotional level.
she began to start feeling "off" and didn't know why, I said I'd be there for anything she needed, but she didn't want to annoy me? and if there were things that i did unintentially i'd agree to stop those small things, but she said if i made those adjustments she'd feel like its cause she told me to, and she doesn't want to change me cause she loves me and doesn't want to change me.
everytime she had a problem, i would pick up her mood and she said "if i ever try to leave you DON'T let me :)" and everything was great.
when she'd feel "off" she had other things going on in her life and i feel that she put it down to perhaps the fact that it was the relationship. she said that how her past relationships ended. (at the beginning). she said she ended them all and doesn't know why, she says they were alll assholes, and that i was soo different.
Eventually she ended it, saying that she still is attracted to me and still loves me, but doesn't know why but she needs space and isn't sure if she's making a big mistake. but the "spark is gone", which i find odd cause yes the stage of obsessive romantic love had ended, but the love and comittment had not. this leaves so many loose ends, she's going through a lot of personal problems that have lasted years but why does she choose to leave when she needs me more than anything?
I respect her decision, but i want to be with her. she had so many small but unrealistic expectations and i came close to perfect with her, but not quiet enough? i dunno.
what are the chances of rekindling this?

Alright. I've heard this asked multiple times and let me clear the air. First off I'm white and married my chocolate lover after divorcing my first wife who was white.

There's a combination of things going on here complicating dating on both sides if it wasn't hard enough.

Alright as always there's general attraction. White men do find black women attractive, but like dating within our own race there are still women who are trailer trash, obese, or whatever we do not like (even if they're white). But there is preference, personally there's nothing sexier than oiling my wife up with a massage and the way her skin shines so beautifully.

Then there's we don't know if u are into us in general, if u even like white guys, if ur open-minded. It's a lot more pressure than asking someone of your race, which is mostly if they are into you not if they can dig your race and are into you.

Your hair just takes getting used to it. As a man in general we don't mess with our hair so much so when I learned all of my wife's rules it was odd but just a learning deal. (She straightens it so I can't touch it, wears this nightcap thing for moisture I hate, and she doesn't wash it as much because of the oils) men do not like weaves... you don't have to have long radiant hair but if you can stay natural.

Ignorance is next on this long list. Some people of any race don't get to meet many people of another culture and so form ideas based on a small percentage then spout their advice as the end all. Make up your own mind.

Aggressive. A lot of women ask to specify this specifically. The norm black Independant woman says things bluntly, and as they are generally. This shocks white people lol. Whites sugar coat and put on facades to each other, so it's shell shock until it's understood it's not aggressive just blatant facts (which takes time and communication).

There is a guy have know for gonig on 3 year, we volunteer with for charity and seems to be behaving in different ways when it come to me.

This is how he reacts to me being around him:

he smile when im around and has told me i make him feel happy, laughs at somethings i do and i seem to cheer him up.

i told him i live saved hair and i think it looks better he then 2 week later to show me his shaved abdomen and saying "oh it just needed doing", he has saved like that before from my knowledge.

he is very sexual in the the things he does and says (he like that type of humor which is something i struggle to understand)

he tab hangs (listens in) on my conversations with other people from time to time.

He flirts with others then Progressess to complete blank me for the rest of the day and/or when they are around.

He also lies to me what he I constantly looking at (eg been flirting with a young girl and say he constantly looking at that shop mannequin that is odd looking).

That about it really for how he behaves around me

He has said that he like the person not the gender and that we are friends but ye he makes excuses to never be alone with me, that he is always "too busy" or "i have a lot going on im my life right now" but the things is he has take down my number (i having him so that i could give him counsel from me if he ever needed it as his friend) and he has my social media contact details but he has never contacted me nor reply to any funny YouTube videos i send him, have a done something wrong?

his family are very protective of him so it that an issue and i have made it seem like i don't like them but i do in fact.

So what dose this guy want from me?