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I have social anxiety and have been dealing with it for the last 33 years of my life.
It started out with me when I was younger, and my mom would always say stuff to me like:
"they hate you, don't you know that or are you stupid" whenever I say hi to someone I knew
"they don't even life you, they like dog poop more than you" whenever I give someone a picture of me
"they could care less about you than a dog, stop wasting your time on people... no one likes you, everyone just wants to use you" whenever I give people presents and the time of day
"everyone would be happier if you died"
"no one likes you, they like cool people only. You're a loser and you're ugly"

So whenever I am around people I instantly think these things. I have read numerous self help books, gone to numerous counseling sessions and also taken numerous different mental disorder drugs... and it does not help. It's the words in my head that makes me feel anxiety and stress around people. medication does not erase those words out of my head.

how does social anxiety affect you? Or does it not affect you?

For years I've been told by my mother that I use too much toilet paper but I’ve always thought she was just looking for an excuse to complain. But fast forward to years and my best friend/roommate said the same thing. Later after that my first “live with” boyfriend had made the same comment. Now my husband is saying th e same thing. It started off as him just jokingly noticing but after 2 years of living together it’s has slowly become an issue between us. Now the issue isn’t me clogging toilets left and right for people or single handily destroying septic tanks. It’s the matter of cost. A roll of decent brand toilet paper like Angel soft (for example) last me roughly 3-4days. I take a poop 2-3 times daily. I use toilet paper ONLY for whipping down there. While my husband can make a roll last him 2 weeks. I’ve been to the doctor to see if maybe I’m having too many bowel movements or anything like that but my doc says my bowel movements are normal. I’ve tried using less toilet paper but it rips up or leaves me unclean or just wet. So I don’t know what to tell my husband. I thought to say women use more than men but my mom and friend are both women and they use way less than me and I don’t know HOW! Is it just me? Do any guys have experience with this either themselves as the toilet paper user or maybe a wife or girlfriend? And girls out there than can tell me if I am using too much? Maybe what brands I should buy? Like I said I don’t clog the toilet. I just run through a roll really fast. (Thanx in advance for any helpful answers)

IF people CAN PLEASE VOTE IN MY POLL, I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IT! THANK YOU! I’m really trying to see what toilet paper uses is looking like for some people. 😁 going to show my husband.