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Here's my story:

I have been in a long distance relationship with this girl for almost a year now. We were friends before we dated, and needless to say, there were several parts of her that i didn't like as a friend. But i have come to like her (and love her) ever since we dated, however, It seems like there are more pressing "red flags" that are resurfacing.

1. She's hella insecure. She cries a lot. Has a lot of hate from the past that she can't let go. She doesn't think she's pretty (although i always tell her), She thinks she won't go far in this world, She thinks she sucks as a person generally.

2. She's pretty immature. We're 4 years apart, I'm a young professional; I work full time and have my own business. She's still in college, and an only child. She has a loooot of issues. I don't think we synch because of the differences in maturity. I'm pretty independent, I always travel, although i'm an introvert, i make it so that i can at least talk to people. She's pretty much a social recluse, and sometimes i feel like she hates everybody. And sometimes i'm taking on the role of the big brother, and she, the spoiled little sister.

3. She's not very smart. I myslef am pretty big on social issues, political, environmental, etc. But i can't have meaningful conversations with her at the least. She doesn't have much to say about anything that involves logical critical thinking. Sometimes it drives me nuts.

Aside all that though, she's really caring and pretty sweet. By far, she's been the best girlfriend i had and i love her to bits. She always showers me with hugs and kisses, and love i just can;t get enough of.

Should I stay with her? or would these "red flags" be a problem if we started living together? I really need your help. Thanks a lot!

There is a terrorist that has a hand held detonator device which he is about to press and blow up a sky scraper with 5000 people inside. The media are all over this and you see everything going on.

You and your family are on a boad in the habour and the terrorist is also on the same boat. He has a bomb which is set to detonate if his heart stops or goes above 120bpm. The device will deactivate only if the bomb in the building goes off. There are enough explosives on board your boat to kill everyone, 1 tonne of TNT.

He is 5 seconds away from pressing the detonator button. You have a gun and a knife, what do you do?