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I met him 2 years ago. I was 21. He was 31. At first we were just chatting and talking on the phone. He was funny, cute, and charming. He was asking me out for like 2 months until finally I said yes. We went to many cute dates, he was taking me on his business trips and buying me romantic gifts.
One night we ended up kissing and having sex at my place. It was so good. After that we went to dinner and I said "You are an amazing guy, I'm surprised you're not married by now" and he went silent for a moment and then said "Actually, I am married". I couldn't believe it. But I stayed calm. I just asked him why didn't you tell me before, why do you ask others out? And he told me it was a mistake he married her. She doesn't love him. She is very much involved in her business which is in another country. So they don't spend much time together. They've been married for 3 years but they don't have kids. They hardly ever have sex because she doesn't want to. I felt a kind of sorry for him and I was thinking he deserved better. But let's face the truth: HE WAS A LIAR AND HE WAS DATING ME FOR MONTHS AND HAD SEX WITH ME BEFORE HE TOLD ME HE WAS MARRIED AND HE PROBABLY WOULD HAVE NEVER TOLD ME HADN'T I ASKED HIM! And he was cheating on his wife!

I was still chatting to him sometimes but I decided it's better not to see him, but after some time we met again. I tried to date others but I was in love with him. Until finally 1 year ago I met a guy who kicked him out of my mind and heart - my current boyfriend.

And my ex's wife found my shampoo at their apartment. He texted me telling me I was a bitch for leaving it there but the truth is he kicked my stuff out after a fight and didn't realize it was not hers. He is still texting me every few days even though it's been more than a year asking me to meet and saying I am the best girl and he misses me. Should I tell his wife?

So my relationship with my boyfriend has been having ups and downs. We’ve been together for more than 2 years now and we’ve been having a lot of problems that can’t be fixed. He is a very forgiving guy and an honest one, he’s not thise type of guys that would cheat or do anything bad. Most of the problems has to do with me being upset all the time for stupid reasons and disrespecting him sometimes. (Ex; not liking his family, interrupting him, showing signs of clinging, and Me getting upset all the time when he mentions his 4 year old half-brother who hasent done anything to me. He dosent like the fact that i hate his family because he has no full siblings and both his mom and dad have kids from different people) he has 5 other half siblings with different parents) So he decided (oct 16) that he has had enough of giving me chances and WE NEED A BREAK. I was the one who brought up going on a break instead of him having to break up with me. So he finally decided that were going on a break for real this time. He Decided on a 3 week break and tolled me that this break is my last chance he is giving me to fix my issues. He decided on 3 weeks of no talking and seeing eachother and after the break (nov 7) will be the deciding factor if we will continue our relationship. He is giving me this time to think about the problems and to see if this will prove that i will change and show him that i will learn to accept his family and show more respect to him. I feel like it’s forever but he said that it’s not a long break and it will be beneficial for us if we decide to continue our relation and save our future in the very long run. I’m thinking this will sorta help us, but not communicating during this break is making me very sad. He said he will contact me on the ending date but I don't know what he will decide on. I really miss talking to him rn. What do you think?