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This question is regarding a film I'm making as a student/indie production.

Scene Setting: A high school house party. A girl walks in on her boyfriend in a bedroom where the guy is on the bed and the girl is on top of him. Both are FULLY clothed.

The guy pushes her off saying 'I know this looks bad but it's not not it looks like.'

So the audience will know the guy is telling the truth. The guy is being set up.

She forced herself on him, and he had been resisting her advances, and NOT giving in.

She pushed him on the bed right before the girlfriend walked in so it looked pretty bad from her perspective.

The question is, as a potential female viewer watching this, and knowing he's innocent...

Would you want to see the girlfriend slap him?

Right now she just calls him an @$$ and storms out. But we're debating on whether to add a slap in...

After this bedroom scene, there will be a cat fight between the girl and the girlfriend. Here, the g/f will yell at her b/f "you cheating bastard!" when he tries to pull her away from the fight exclaiming "don't touch me".

Is the verbal aggressive satisfying enough? Or should she slap him too in the bedroom before she storms out?

Basically we want to appeal to the female audience, so is that something you ladies would want to see, even knowing the guy IS innocent and was NOT cheating?

For the g/f character trait, she is supposed to be drunk in this scene, as her friend spiked her punch to help the "plan."

This scene will also parallel another scene shown, where another male (however a player type) gets splashed with a drink by one of the girls he played at the party.

I don't understand why people need to assert their self-worth and their "congruence with their gender and self-identity" via 'acting more womanly' and/or 'being more manly'.

Technically, if you were born with XX chromosomes with proper genes and stuff, you're female. If you were born with XY chromosomes with proper genes and stuff, you're male.

No matter what you do, you're still the sex that you were born with.

So why care about how your behavior is perceived by some archaic cultural imperatives, when you can be who you want to be? Why assert your self-worth through broken concepts, why resort to the division of social genders, and why enforce behavior patterns on children to "brainwash them" into being "proper Men/Women"?

This whole idea is silly to me. The reason why I ask this question is based on the notion that "a guy must be taller than a girl, so that the girl feels properly feminine". Why? What does even feeling "feminine" mean? Congruence with social standards? Why can't you be who you are? Why can't you just thrive to be the best person you can be, no matter how "masculine" or "feminine" that is perceived?

I think this notion makes us be held down and bogged down in a series of traditions, rather than properly progress as people.

Check out this site:
www.plannedparenthood.org/.../...dentity-26530.htm

"Gender roles are the way people act, what they do and say, to express being a girl or a boy, a woman or a man. These characteristics are shaped by society."

"Feminine traits are ways of behaving that our culture usually associates with being a girl or woman."

"What Are Gender Stereotypes?
A stereotype is a widely accepted judgment or bias regarding a person or group — even though it is overly simplified.[...] This is called sexism."

People should be who they are. Act like they naturally would. Be the best they can. Not be bogged down by silly concepts , broken ones.