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We had a long distance relationship lasted about 8 months. When I realized he has changed a lot towards me, I didn't want to go on like this. And we stopped talking. After a month when he texted me I got excited again because I wanted him back so bad. But things weren't the same.He would rarely send me a message and it's either when he's bored or drunk. Maybe both. I was sure that there was someone in his life and I of course was stalking to find out. One day he sent me a pic wearing a girl's scarf and I just told him if there's someone in his life I don't want to keep in touch, he denied and blamed me for always doubting him. But I wanted to know the truth. I asked "why are you messing with me" he sent me pic of a piece of shit and said "now you know". These are really absurd things I cannot rationalize at all. Anyways, I didn't say anything to that and I blocked him. After a week, he called me but I didn't answer he tried another way to message me, he didn't even know why I was mad. I reminded him what he has done and he tried some excuses. I'd finished this in my mind at that time. We didn't talk at all. But he sent a random pic on kik one day. I told him "Would you please stop sending me pictures?" Then he started to talk VERY RUDELY for no reason at all. We started to fight again. I told him to go to his Jessica or Sasha or whatever her name was. He laughed and said "I'm with Gabby now, did you know that too?" I was shocked, I was hurt. It was just really awful. That was the girl who he wasn't talking about nicely before. I blocked him on everywhere except his number because I prefer to keep one door open no matter what. Two months passed. A few days ago he sent me an mms. A pic of my playlist on Spotify. And the other day he called me in the middle of the night. I didn't answer. I don't know if I should answer if he calls again. I just don't understand what he's trying to do.

At the moment doing voluntary work, my boss/employer had a birthday party two weeks back. he was saying things like so what do you think of him, I was like I do not know him :/. He said well you can get to know him.

I said do not put me on the spot, it was said infront of the whole crowd at the party. Then his colleague spoke to me , as I picked toppings off my pizza and he said so you do not like bacon, tomato. what do you like and we spoke for a bit.

Then he was joking about how the guy pretends he has a gf, when he does not. Then the boss said, do not get upset he is single do not worry. the colleague of his then said why would she be upset. I can tell he thinks he has no chance with me just by the look of his face.

i'll be honest he is not attractive and reminds me of an ex but I do like his personality as he is intelligent and funny and not rude to me. he also included me in signing the card for the guy whose birthday it was. he only asked me out of all the volunteers.

he also said it will not be awkward from now on as we can say hi on the stairs.

the employer also said he is missing opportunities with me isn't he, as when I got called out to sign the card the employer thought he was making a move. this guy is like 30 odd and will not make a move?

I see him everyday, and today saw him.

he seems embarrassed or weird around me now. he stares a lot but does not say a word. I know guys never want to seem creepy so maybe that's why he doesn't want to go for it.

I think he does like me, through the talking to me a lot also offering me cake and smiling.what do I do as I am leaving in 3 weeks time..