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Search Results: approaching girls in a bar
Why do some guys (the guys that approach me or that I approach) just assume im interested in them?
just something i have wondered about for a while.. ofc im not trying to generalize, BUT about every guy i have met automatically thinks that like him or that im attracted to him. Whenever im at a bar or maybe a club and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Ladies when you're having a girls night out do you like to be approached by guys?
i was out the other day at a bar and there were was a group of girls out for a girls night out and i tried approaching one of them and she was totatly ignoring me. at a girls night out do you ladies like being approached...
stevephillips706
Xper 7 Age: 31 My friend told a guy to "go for it" with me, he said that I needed a black guy?
so my friend and I went out on a bar, just having fun and having a drink or two. Ofc as two single ladies we got approached by several guys, but one guys said something that first of all was racist, but also weird (in my...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Age of Men is Over - Part III
Third Teir Men of the 21st Century Read Part II here So in Part II, I discussed what a 2nd teir man of the 21st century looked like. These are the guys who have gotten ahead of the game and have realized that chasing the...
Watermelonoma
Yoda Age: 35 Girls how would you like to be approached at bars?
ladies how would you like to be approached at bars
stevephillips706
Xper 7 Age: 31 Because you ain't gonna find wifey at the club?
Here's something I've been trying to figure out for awhile now. Where is the best place for a guy to meet a woman? The obvious answer is at a bar, club, party, whatever. But at the same time, most women I meet at those...
G_Stranger
Xper 5 Age: 34 Kind/soft face with masculine swagger. Can this be attractive?
I've been called cute or pretty about as much as I've been called hot. I'm a slim and toned guy standing at 5'10. Girls have told me I have big expressive eyes and a very "innocent" looking face. I'm Asian so I guess big...
Anonymous
(36-45) Found out he is married... what now?
The other night I went out to a bar. A guy approached me and said he "had to come over to talk to me." We chatted for a while about ourselves, talking about our schoolwork, jobs, and other quirky facts. I asked him his...
agent89201
Xper 5 Age: 33 Finding it hard to meet girls in real life?
Ok so I'm finding it hard to meet girls in real life. I try to keep my eye opened everytime I go out and approach a girl I find attractive if the opporturnity presents itself. Honestly, I don't know if I just make too...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is she flirting, or is she just being polite?
For the last four months, I've been working as a barista at a playground/coffee shop hybrid - sounds ridiculous, but I get to dress as Pluto every now and then. Because of the setting, I'm literally the only male working...
loxagos_snake
Xper 6 Age: 33 Does anyone know how I can meet new girls or where?
I've been trying to get a girlfriend but i have a hard time finding one or where a lot of girls hang out. Or even just meet some more that i could even be friends with. If i see one i just feel like its weird for me to...
db1994
Xper 2 Age: 32 How do I get over being attracted to women?
I'm so tired of being attracted to women. It all started in middle school when kids were first kissing and people had crushes; i remember being so sad because no girls liked me and the girl I liked told me she would never...
Anonymous
(30-35) PART 2: (Apologies for the long story) Where did it go wrong? Was it me? Was it excessive mixed signals from her? Or did I just read her signs wrong?
Afterwards she said that we should go to my place and continue drinking. I had no alcohol so I told her so & said I would stop somewhere and get alcohol. She said no problem. We went to get the drinks and then go to my...
Reyzer1003x
Xper 4 Age: 38 Why do guys disappear whenever I show interest?
This is just a recent case: so about a month ago I'm at a bar with friends when I see this attractive guy. We keep making eye contact and it sort of becomes a game where we try to catch the other one looking until we...
Keligirl1
Xper 5 Age: 35 Why do women always think I'm hitting on them? I worked in hospitality and even a simple hello, will get me looks of disgust and no response?
I worked in bars around the world and always my most valued customers were older women but if a younger lady, weather she was attractive or not, come into the venue. no matter how I approached them or greeted them i would...
Yc2K15
Xper 6 Age: 38 Girl a lone at the bar... approach or avoid?
I went past the bar and noticed this attractive girl taking a shot and drinking a beer at the end of the bar. She looks to be talking to the bartender. Approach or avoid?
Anonymous
(36-45) Guys, what prevents you from approaching a girl?
So you see a girl on the train, work, bar, wherever and there's clearly chemistry and sexual attraction between you both. You have engaged eye contact with her and smiled. What would prevent you from approaching her? I...
Aphrodite312
Xper 5 Age: 30 GIRLS! What behavior makes you think a GUY is full of himself?
I don't mean by his words, but his actions, his non-verbal behavior. Lets say you see this attractive guy, you think he's hot, he's standing there, alone, waiting for the train or sitting at a bar. What would make you not...
Anonymous
(30-35) Polite Rejection - Is It Still Rude?
Alright, here's the situation: when I go to bars (the rare times I do) I'm typically going with a friend or someone I haven't seen in a while to catch up. We aren't wild party girls, we tend to just go for the atmosphere...
JackieGraves
Xper 5 Age: 32 Looking for a girlfriend but have few options, what can I do?
Hi there, I'm a 23 year old man who's only just begun dating and is looking for a girlfriend. I just moved 1500 miles from home, leaving most of my social circle back there, I work quite a bit, most of my encounters with...
Waziman
Xper 5 Age: 35 