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I have made a post about something similar but i wanna see what you guys think.
I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month , we have things in common, although there were a couple hiccups in the beginning we worked them through. We both like each other and we would either video call every other day or send snap videos.. we now made it a thing to video call every weekend and when we do its between 1-3 hours. He calls this a relationship.

We haven't met yet due to the pandemic and he said he's willing to wait and that he's in this for the long haul/prize at the end. He would say things like : i want you, need you, i really like you, compliments me a lot. Asks me questions. He seems to be willing to talk about things and be mature about things. He said he feels the L word but wants to hold back from saying it.. he told me right now its a lust feeling and he knows its too soon to say it. We're both not talking to anyone and just talking/interested in each other

We've been talking to this guy for about a month and a half. We met on the Internet. We are in different countries. But it has taken care of me for a long time. he would compliment me and say he liked it. One day I responded to his interest. When he said he loved me, I said I liked him. When I answered, his mind changed. kept away from me. I stayed away from him too. we decided to stay friends. He said he didn't want to lose me.
I asked him "how are you" recently but he didn't answer. 1 week has passed, no answer. went online. still did not answer. I stopped following him, deleted him from his social media address. I told him to delete me. But he still neither deleted nor answered. usually always online. Why doesn't this guy still delete me?

I am venting and know I might get some hate for this. I’m 26 with no real dating history. I’ve had a short term relationship which was absolute shit. I was told in HS and college to wait it out, be patient and focus on your education. Years later, I’m graduated, own my place and have a decent living. I don’t necessarily want kids but I just don’t get my lack of suitors. I know I’m not a ten, at least cute. People have complimented my looks, I struggled with my weight growing up. I was chubbier so I can see how in Hs I was overlooked. Now I’m thinner, I gained a bit of weight during COVID but am close to my smallest weight from 3 years ago. I looked alright in college and never got approached. I hate when people ask why I don’t have a man and while that question can either be a compliment or just a dig to get into my business, I wonder myself. I’ve been on the dating apps for years and have called quits, was on and off. I was just frustrated with the guys that came my way. I always attract the men I would not want to date physically, hence why that short term relationship I had did not work. On the rare occasion I send a message first, it fizzled out very quick. When guys message me first, it goes a little further. The cute guys are usually dicks, the decent looking guys are alright but a little too short for my preferences and the less attractive guys are always pursuing. They have decent personalities but just not what I want in a man. Am I just cursed or too picky?