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I have a guy friend. We use to date a couple years ago. Since the break up though we have become close. I can ask him for anything and he would try to help. I mentioned needing a bookshelf and he offered to build one for me. He had to buy a table saw and other equip to do this. He suggested I get a job in his office because i mentioned i was going to need to find one somewhere in the US within the next year. He asked this multiple times and even put in a good word. I got the job and weve been working together for a while. I told him in November I still liked him. He said he wasn't sure if he would ever want to date me again. He also mentioned he was hanging out with a girl. After this I told him we can't be friends. He respected this and we stopped talking, even at work. He gave me so much space. After a few days work was weird so I told him to forget it we can be friends. Things were weird for a while. I kept my distance but I noticed he would try to talk to me almost everyday. He would come over in my area of the office (right next to his) and then wander back to his space. Its been since November and I decided to start being real friends again, hang out outside of work and talk. I dont know if he is seeing anyone. I dont want to know. I texted him Saturday night at 8 and he didn't reply until Sunday morning at 9. We went to lunch, it was nice. I mentioned going to a basketball game and he said he wanted to go to that. I think he expected a hug because i use to give him one before I told him how I felt. I didn't go for one because I do still like him and dont want to do that to myself. We talked at work since then and I asked to do something the other night and he said i can't. I have mixed feelings. I know if he liked me and wanted to date he would date me. My question is if he is physically attracted to me, and enjoys spending time with me? What is missing? He doesn't ask to do things but mentions he is interested in doing something and I have to ask him.

Hi so my boyfriend of 5 months has been unreachable since Wednesday I told him I`d give him a call back since he was in traffic but he ignored my first call I asked why he told me he was busy on the other line after I tried again a couple times he's phone was off so I left it for the night I asked if he could see me the next day he said I don't know after I said I needed a yes or a no since I was trying to figure my day out he told me he had an exam on Friday so he felt he wouldn't get his studying done if I was there he thought he would be distracted I overreacted since I thought if he can get homework done with me there it shouldn't be much of a difference but after thinking realized I should say sorry since it was an exam and harder then just homework with it being university and exams are just not the same as simple homework and so I said I was sorry for overreacting to call/text me when he could I never heard from him so I went to his house I may have asked his mom about if she hated me because he gets all quite and says he doesn't want his mom to know he's home but I wasn't thinking I just said it without realizing I had started to say it she said she doesn't hate me tho but has talked to him about girls being there in the past but hasn't said my name in particular I left a note for him and went home over the weekend I saw some of his friends who I`d met before and decided I would ask if they had seen or talked to him recently they told me about his exam today and him going to Seattle to give his mom and sister their visa that he should be back Sunday since he has an exam today he didn't answer his phone Sunday it also was off shortly after awhile Sunday now I am wondering what I should do he was the one who said I love you to me first and wanted to change that I didn't date we spend everyday or at least every other day together and usually loose track of time so we end up spending till late at night hanging out from after class on sometimes we just spend the