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I've seen many women on this website who have complained of guys leaving them after they had sex with them on the first date, and i don't even understand why they do such stupid things and come complaining about them here, i mean how can sex from the first date be any good for a relationship? It's basically a one night stand but with people getting hurt, and if the guy doesn't leave them after that then the relationship will be built on sheer physical attraction and zero to no emotional connection whatsoever which will make the relationship one hell of an emotional rollercoaster for the more sensitive partner and a headache for the other, don't people see the negative sides? The only positive side is the pleasure of sex which is as minimal as any casual senseless hookup
I mean instead of that bullshit, go find someone just for hookup and nothing else, where's the love in case of sex of a first date? There's nothing but lust, and if lust comes first then love is pretty much dead because people are just ignoring the fact that loves come first, not lust

So I've come across this really hot chick on tinder. And even though we haven't met we used to text each other a lot and would talk on phone for hours. And one day she was kinda rude to me on chat and said that she hates guys like me and called me a fucker, even when I was talking to her normally and didn't say anything rude to her. and also she said she just wanted to be friends. and she was friendzoning me. and i said that i dont want anything serious. Just casual (by that I meant yeah we could hook up and shit but i just didn't want to get too attached cause it hurts later). Also im not a nice person so I dont wanna hurt her. So the day she was rude to me I blocked her cause I got too angry. Just when I blocked her she called and texted from a different number but i didn't answer cause I knew it was her. Her text read "Listen at least tell me why you're blocking me. This is not done" And after 1 month I get a call from a random number and she was saying sorry to me for how she behaved. And she was asking if we could meet. Why did she suddenly remember after 1 month even after getting blocked by me? Or is this a typical girly behaviour?