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I suspected my boyfriend was sleeping with a female friend whilst we were broken up. I have one reason to think so, being that she constantly flirted with him and he never really stopped her but also didn't flirt back. she kept asking him to have a "slumber party" and a "pajama party" and he finally just said yes when he hadn't given her an answer the first time.

soo flash forward to us getting back together. The girl calls him and he says they should get lunch, whilst I'm in the room. When he hangs up I told him I didn't want them hanging out unless I'm there & he informs me the girl called me crazy and ends up not going to see her because of how I felt. Does it sound like they slept together if he made plans to hang with her in front of me and wasn't at all acting secretive? He says they've never had a thing.

We dated 8 years ago. We never had sex. Our relationship lasted only a month because he went back to his ex girlfriend. It was a bad break up since he did not even dump me. He just went MIA. After we broke up, he went down the wrong path and got arrested. He was obviously hanging around bad people. He was just a bad person. All of our mutual friends don’t like him. He and his ex also broke up not long after.

Fast forward today (8 years later), he all of sudden followed me on Instagram and messaged me. We are both single and have the same type of dog. We also share a lot similarities. We exchanged numbers started texting. He claims that he makes good money as a mortgage broker and wants to be a boss one day. He also claims that he has changed a lot and called his old self stupid. Honestly, he sometimes sounds “conceited” and somewhat rude which pisses me off. For example, I told him I found out Dominican men really likes me... he responded “No, I think they just like everyone”. I cooked dinner, took pictures of the food I made, and sent it to him. His response was, “It looks okay, I cook better and my friends always compliment my cooking... i make the best pasta dishes!!!” He also seems to underestimate what I do and a bit judgmental. Honestly, it’s a super turn off the way he talks.

He asked me out to dinner on Friday and going out with his friends for drinks later. I’m thinking to bail. My best friend suggested me to just go and see what happens. I’m not even sure if he is interested or just wanna be friends. Also, my sister saw him on a dating app (maybe he is desperate).

Should I just bail? And forget about him?