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I was seeing a guy and we had an instant connection, and so much chemistry and understanding of each other. He was very aware and sensitive as I am. He told me a week after seeing each other that he was in love with me and wanted to be my boyfriend. I was confused. The next day he said that he rushed things and wanted to take it slow and I agreed. He had 2 months prior broken up with his ex of 3 years who he still worked with and I could tell while we were seeing each other that he was still hurt and healing. We saw each other for a year and a half without the label. I met his friends and parents and family and we all got along really well, and he told me that everyone really like me. I could tell that he was afraid to be vulnerable. But he did say that he was falling for me, and wasn't not ready for everything I had to offer yet. I know we were a bit different because he was really scared of taking emotional risks, and putting himself out there and letting people in. He was insecure in private and said he wasn't good enough, and I always reassured him of what he was worth and the qualities I loved about him. Things were going really well. Leading up to the end we went on 3 dates in a row, and I gave him a bracelet with his name on it that I got from Cuba. And he seemed really touched, and surprised at how much I loved him. He always told me I was beautiful, but he was insecure about being in a relationship with me with a label because I'm South Asian, and he's a white country boy who hadn't been exposed to other cultures, but it was honestly just my skin, because we grew up in the same small town in the same way and had a lot in common. Out of the blue, he changed his relationship status on facebook. I msgd him excitedly, was he making things official with us? Then I found out he decided to be with someone else. I ended communication, but he started texted me and calling me none stop right after he told me :/ What was going on with him emotionally?

If you don't like it, why not?
I've been in an interracial relationship (ex boyfriend was Hispanic and I'm black) and I don't see color an issuer. I like all types of races.

He is a big black muscular guy, and I am a short little white girl. He's older than me, and I look young for my age. Depending on your outlook, we look like oil and water together. Complete physical opposites. However, I'm crazy attracted to him (looks & personality), and he is to me as well. Our personalities click. Just to be honest, we're both pretty good looking and in-shape, just very physically opposite. I block out the world around him, but I wonder what everyone else is thinking. Particularly because he has "joked" a few times worried that people will think I'm there against my will or something like that because of our races and sizes.

What does everyone think? Would you judge us?