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So there's this guy, he's 4 years older, I've known him for years and had a crush on him but he didn't know until he contaced me 5 months ago. I had a thing with another guy then but he was a jerk&when my former crush asked me out& said I deserved better I agreed. We listen to the same music, watch the same movies & are both into arts. I slept with him on the second date & he then told me he didn't want a relationship. He's not from here &only comes to visit his Mom here once a month, so I thought he was only looking for a bootycall when he's in town. The sex is usually extremely rough& though i always stay overnight we don't talk much, he sleeps with his back towards me & kicks me out without breakfast in the morning (On our first night I said I didn't breakfast which was a lie I was just on a diet). Then we lost touch &he tried to start a relationship with another girl but it didn't workout because she never talked back which bored him so he came back to me. But he's changed somehow. He's coming home every weekend now, always asks to see me even when he knows I'm on my period, texts me randomly, gets jealous over my guy friends or when I don't reply instantly, asks me to hang out with him and his friends (which I didn't do because I was with my own friends then..)& calls me Darling. Then last weekend he suddenly said he didn't mean to hurt me by turning away to sleep, it's just that he always sleeps on that side & then he took my hand & held it the whole night & left me confused when he kicked me out in the morning again. 2days ago I failed an exam he asked how to cheer me up I said tell me we'll meet this weekend & yesterday he just texted me "I'm in town come over". We talked for hours then&made out which we never do&then he said we'd just have vanilla sex if that made me happy. I lay on his other side in the end & he pulled me close& held me the whole night but in the morning he kicked me out again. Now I'm confused & don't know if or how we should talk about it.