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My ex girlfriend and I stated dating very soon after her long term relationship with her ex boyfriend. In fact we started talking just two weeks after they broke it off. At the time I was unaware that they dated for so long and continued to dig my self in a deeper and deeper hole.

We got to know each other very fast and hung out just about every day. She met my family and I was quick to meet hers. It seemed like we had a great bond.. that is until the last few weeks.

I had asked her a few times if she still had feelings for her ex and she was very honest when she said she did still have feelings for him (second mistake staying with her). I thought we could work through it however, it didn't work out to what I had hoped. The last few weeks of our relationship we had began to bicker about things she never cared about before. She had gone through stages where she would get depressed... and then

She just broke up with me, saying she never had time to herself/to heal and really get over her ex after her ex and her broke it off. I asked her if she could picture a long term relationship with me and she said, as of now I can't but maybe in the future.

After getting to know her I realized she was the girl of my dreams, my "perfect" girl. I am wondering if I give her time to heal, do I even have a chance in the future? Or did she never really like me as a boyfriend?

Girls, answer or just poll this please under this scenario:

Imagine you like a very good looking guy, and ended up playing so hard to get because of fear that he stopped talking to you.

You message him several months later apologizing, and he forgives you and invites you to hang out with friends a few times.

You agree and ask one of his girls about this guy, and you find out that this girl is his ex and that this guy is a player and has many girls who are friends. You have loyalty issues because your boyfriends always cheated on you.

You never gave the guy you like a chance, but you see that he does indeed have a lot of girls who are friends and his ex DID just say that he is a player...

You decide to completely cut off contact with the guy you like (d) based on the gossip and what you imagine to be real, without actually knowing - you never gave the guy a chance.

Vote or reply - would you ever second glance this guy despite what his one ex said? Would you try to talk to him again and find out for YOURSELF if he is actually serious or not?