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"You can tell a lot about a man by the way he treats his Mother and his Sister", well I love my Mother to death, but my Sister, not quite as much, and it's NOT a full hatred where I wish she's die in a car crash or anything extreme like that, no it's more like I very much disagree with what she does and thinks and here's why. She tends to live that "Lie, Cheat and Steal" lifestyle, she secretly does drugs, she never wants to work and if she does get a job she doesn't hold it for no more than a year, she wants everybody to support her and tries to manipulate your feelings to get you to do so, she's on welfare and says the the Government owes us, she says she wants to date a guy with a job so she doesn't have to work and can sleep all day, and worst of all she tries to influence people to have animosity towards other people especially towards our own Mother. To make this quick I'm just going to say these: I would not give her a large sum of money even if I was a millionaire because she will spend it all on cigarettes, drugs, fast food and who knows what else and less than a week later she will come crawling back wanting more money and do this "oh woes me" thing to give her more money out of pity, and if you want her to pay you back she will come up with reasons on how she deserved that money and make you feel bad. I wouldn't let her spend the night at my house because there's been times that she's stolen little thinks like nail polish and hair spray, she's rearranged my mother's house countless times, she brings drugs in, and she once brought a guy over in the middle of the night without anybody knowing while she lived with our mom. I wouldn't let her babysit my children because she tends to try to influence people especially children, she's tried to get me to think our mother was horrible and selfish and made up stories and theories to do so and she already got my little Nephew to hate his step mom, and I wouldn't want my own kids to hate me or their mother

RAN OUT

The first time I saw you I couldn't take my eyes off you. In school I was always there for you when assholes you dated treated you with 1% of the respect I have for you in 1% of my heart alone.
I offered to pay for your lunch even when you were dating other guys. When you wanted to go out because an asshole had broke up with you and you needed to take your mind off it and I was busy I made time for you, but I also respected you when you were busy. In tenth grade when I masturbated for the first time I didn't think of pornstars like other guys but I thought of you. At prom you were the only one I wanted to take but you went with a douche who had asked another girl before you. That's the reason I didn't go because I couldn't go with you. I never told you this before but you've gone as far as you need to with all the assholes you date. I'll be the last guy you ever date. Because we will never break up. A brother wouldn't do any of this but that's what you call me?

Biologically men want to take lead and protect in a relationship. Not every dynamic is set out to be this way, but generally this is what biology brings us to. It makes us feel masculine when we provide and are needed, so I can understand that a women who's completely self-sufficient emotionally, and financially could make men feel insignificant.

But I believe the bigger problem with these self proclaimed independent women is they have this attitude that they don’t need any man. I’d personally like to be feel wanted in a relationship and I’d like to feel like a priority. Also a lot of these types of women are often offputting, because to get to these higher positions, they often have to take on traits of a man. I’m personally attracted to feminine women. Not hyper-aggressive and bitchy women who think that being rude is the only way to make it in the world.

I’ve always dated successful women. My two most serious relationships at least. One was a nurse and the other was an accountant. They were both feminine and didn’t have masculine personalities. They also didn’t sit on this throne screaming at the world that they’re independent lol. This is why it never bothered me.

I'm just sort of sick of seeing questions on here of women claiming that they are too intimidating to us because they make 60k a year lol. We aren't. We're just off-put by your lack of willingness to prioritize a relationship and your masculine personality. If anything, it would be nice to have a woman to be able to pay her own shit once in a while. I know I'd certainly appreciate that. So long story short, it's not your money or your job. It's you.

From personal experience I would say guys. Why? Well for example for myself people would ask me what I would want for my birthday and Christmas and I would always say one thing or the other.

“I don’t know”
Or
“I don’t want anything”

Then it leaves the person scratching their head 😂

For my mom for example, I’d have a list of possible things I can get her that I know for a fact she’d like.

And with girls I dated I would pay close attention to times she points out a certain thing she really wants and remember what it is then buy it for her.

For my old man, since he’s the same as me I just buy him beer and a gift card to a hardware store and say fuck it. Cause he’s difficult to buy shit for 😂