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I saw this interesting comment online:
Type A: Guys who feel that relationships are the result of mutual attraction, therefore to them it doesn't really matter who asks out whom. This type may approach if given a positive signal (aka a flirty smile from across a room).

Type B: Guys who appreciate confident women and does not believe that they need to abide by a convention of passivity, this category appreciate a woman even more if she takes the initiative, since this would show that the woman is confident, courageous and has the grace to risk rejection. To put it straight they like the woman approaching them.

Type C: Guys who are the most visible/vocal one, s of which is probably why all women believe that all men subscribe to this category's views. The men in this category abide by a hunter-prey mentality when it comes to relationships. They believe that relationships are initiated due to a man's constant efforts to impress a woman and the woman's eventual "giving-in". This is the type of guy who is intimidated/feels a woman is easy if she asks him out, and may lose respect for a woman if she does so.

I'm personally a mix of A/B. I would never look down upon a girl for approaching me. But considering this doesn't happen frequently enough for me to sustain a decent dating life... I look for positive signals which give me the 'Ok' for me to go chat to her (AKA her giving you a few glances and perhaps a smile). I don't like trying to 'chat up' girls that just won't be attracted/interested in me unless i somehow deploy some crazy manipulating 'game' method... I'd say i conform with type A the most.

Of course this sort of thing may be different for say if you're looking for a partner or just a one night stand so feel free to distinguish a preference for those two options in the comments.