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I am in love with my boss. Nothing has happened between us, but the chemistry is electric and when we are close to each other you can feel that tension. Recently at a work party, he asked me if I would like to grab drinks with him after. I agreed and we went to this little bar down the street. We started talking and one thing led to another. Needless to say, we spent the night together, and let me just say the sex was explosive. The next day we went back to work and my boss asked me to come into his office. He told me that he didn't want that night to be a fling, that he had deep feelings for me for a long time. He said that he wants to be with me and I know that I want to be with him, but we can't have an inner office relationship. He can't quit, but I have that option. I actually work two jobs, and don't really need that one financially, even though I do enjoy my work. Do you think I should quit my job in the name of love?

I met a guy a few months ago who was clearly interested in me - wanted to go to church with me and my family, invited me to things, etc. I was not interested in him because he is 10 years younger than I am and I told him so. I admit I haven't always treated him as well as I should have - putting us in group situations, etc. when I think he contemplated something different.

We end up attending the same functions - often unplanned. Several people have thought we were a couple and one person even said she picked up on chemistry between us, but I told her no, we're just friends.

Now he has met several of my female friends, which has been fine with me. In fact, I kind of put him together with a couple of them. He is very outgoing, cute, and a great dancer. They both like him. One of them is even his age and attractive.

The problem is that now I think I'm starting to want him for myself! A bunch of us went to a gala last weekend and then went to a private club for dancing. I don't know whether it's beause he requested and we danced to a romantic song I told him I think is sexy, or what, but for the first time in the months I've known him I've started thinking about him a lot this week! When one of our mutual friends told me he invited her to something he told me he's going to, for the first time I felt a little jealous. Now I'm finding that I want to go dancing with him again - and for the first time I want it to be just the two of us.

What's going on with me and what should I do?

For almost 2 years now I've been getting on great with a guy and we were in a relationship for some time but me broke up because we didn't have time to see each other at the time. Thing is, there is still an amazing chemistry between us and we both say there will always be. This guy, my ex, told me he will always have feelings for me and so will I.

The problem is, he's trying to give someone else a chance, to avoid problems, to think less about what we have.. And I'm in a relationship with someone else as well. I love my current boyfriend but it's that other guy i care so much for that i'm going crazy about. We're trying not to talk to each other but I'm going mad..

I don't know how to handle this, i can't keep him out of my mind, it's like we both have a piece of each other. I know this sounds crazy but still.. I need to know how he's doing, if he's happy and stuff. What could i tell him? That I miss him, need to hear from him? What should I do? :-(

I've known a guy for about 7 months, since I changed schools to go to sixth form. We got really really close in February since we were put together by our teacher who decided to implement a seating plan since all we did was talk at that time. Every lesson, we flirt like crazy. We've recently started touching each other a bit (he lay on my arm the other week) and I've also made him blush a couple of times. He's been texting me at least once a day ever since there wad a communication error between us and he thought I said I liked some other guy, and I didn't correct him (so at that point, the flirting really stepped up too). I tweeted a sad face in response to a news story I'd heard, and he text me asking if I was ok. There's crazy amounts of chemistry between us, and we get on so well it's like we've known each other for ages. Ordinarily, I'd be in no doubt at all of his feelings for me. But... He has a girlfriend. I know, I know, this is a stupid situation to be in, and please I don't need a lecture - I have never once chased him, it's always been him initiating everything. He moans at me about his girlfriend, and always seems really insecure when he talks about her, like he's the ugly one in the relationship. I'm perfectly content to wait until he breaks up with his girlfriend. But it does seem like he really likes me. How can I tell if he's Friendzoned me so hard I never even saw it coming, or if he does actually like me?