Search Results: girls don''t believe me

So, basically, on this site you see a lot of girls ask wether they are seen as easy/hard to get,
Or wether they should play hard to get to catch a guy... And the works...
Now, i do think there's a male version of this too, altough i didn't figure this out earlier.
So first off , i guess all the sugarcoating aside, i think we can all agree that guys prefer hard to get girls in the long run.
Easy girls get used and sometimes won't be called again. We guys think we shouldn't really have to explain it to them that maybe guys use them because they allow it.

But i think the same things happen to us.
Only in a different way, i think guys go for physical intimacy and affection first when going for a woman, but i believe a lot (not all) women value time and attention a slight bit mote than that. And i think that in that regard, they look at guys in the same easy/hard to get frame.

Even tough i dont like to admit it, i have found that i give a woman ALL of my time and attention right in the beginning when i start to get close. I think by already giving them what i they need, they saw me as an easy guy and moved on.. Kinda like how guys do with female hookups.. Now im not being bitter or anything, but something just clicked and i made this connection.. I think women want time and attention from a guy from whom its hard to get those. Now if she gets HIS attention, there's an achievement. The easy guys, they just take what is offered (for free) and move on. It makes sense from their point of view. I mean if we just gave them all this right in the beginning, just as she came along, who is to say we wouldn't give it to the next girl that comes along?

So i think , just like for girls, there is an easy/hard to get variation for guys as well.
Or isn't there, in your opinion? I guess thats my real question.

Guy and Girl are in a class, Girl notices a guy and starts giving him signs that she likes her,
Guy also likes the girl because she is too gorgeous.

He asks his friends about this chic, and almost every of his friend told him
"dude, she is engaged to some guy"
"she has mobile wallpaper of her and her fiancee"
"she was seen hugging an ugly guy on street"
(All these statements are true, 100 % so please dont say that dont believe on rumors)

After hearing all of these statements, the guy still tells her that he likes her, (but in his mind, she was just a hook up and not a girlfriend material because of her past)

After the proposal, girl blows off all the dudes from the picture and starts giving him more signs and shows this guy to her friends and sister (in a stalker way).
So the girl became exclusive to the guy but the guy thought of her just a hook up , the guy did not even ask her for a date, it went for about 1 month.

One day, the girl saw him talking on a phone with a girl, the girl goes crazy and begins to flirt with everyone,. all the dudes in the class, and she was again started seen with other dudes on streets,
so in a way she started acting "slutty".

I just wana know who was wrong? who was at fault?