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Hey there and thanks for reading,

I started seeing a guy for a month now. He is really handsome and we have lots of things in common. He messages me everyday and is very affectionate ( he cups my face when he kisses me, caresses my hair a lot, kisses me in the forehead and gives me little kisses everywhere) We've been on six dates and in the last one we had sex. He was super sweet. While we were having sex, he asked me what I was thinking, he stared at my eyes and searched for my hand. He also kissed my forehead. After the sex, I said I had to leave so I cuddle with him and left after fifteen minutes or so. He didn't offer me to stay. However, that was two days ago and he still messages me normally, we talk about music and books that we like, like always. He hasn't mentioned the sex and neither have I.

The catch is that we're both seing other people and we talked about this since the beggining. He is very rational and says that he doesn't want to get into a relationship until he is convinced. He also mentioned that he falls into relationships and that he doesn't plan them. I was cool with that since I'm also seeing other guys and seeing what happens.

But! on the fifth date, I asked him out to go out on Saturday and he said he was seing a girl that he mentioned is his friends with benefits. I freaked out a bit although I knew about this since day one. It was an unexcpected reaction. I told him I coudln't have sex with him since he was having sex with another girl. He said that he didn't wanted to ruin things, that he liked me and enjoyed spending time with me. We kind of left it at that and kissed at the end of the date like nothing had happened.

In the six date we had sex, we didn't mentioned anything about me freaking out about him sleeping with other girl. Or my willingness to sleep with him now. It just happened.

What do you guys think?

In one hand, I think he likes me because he is very affectionate, seems very interested in getting to know me better and its very respectful of what I think. However, he might just want to have his cake and eat it too.

Thanks a lot. Sorry for the long post.

I live in dorms next door to a guy I met in August - we're good friends and have a solid group of mutual friends, and sober he's very intellectual and just a nice person to talk to.

A group of us went on a trip and one night he and I were up talking and he drunkenly kissed me on the forehead twice.
A few weeks later, he and I were with a small group and he was casually and very loosely taking my hand to hold it, putting his arm around my shoulders, as well as the front of my waist when we'd stop walking, etc. After sobering up a little he and I went found a way up onto the wall of a library and he made sure he was holding my hand the way up and the way down because I'm scared of heights.
That next night, three of us went on a walk mostly sober and he was doing a lot of the same things, as well as playing with my hair. It got to a point that the other girl who was with us wound up back at the building way quicker, because everytime I stopped to show him something we were even more delayed with him being slow and pretty touchy.
Once we got back to the building, we were sitting on a couch together and he was tracing circles on my knee cap as I talked to him, and at one point I could feel him staring at the side of my face, and when I asked "What?" he whispered "Nothing."
When he and I went to our rooms to go to sleep, he gestured for a hug, which I don't think we'd ever done before. It was like really long and stuff, and I felt like if I looked up he would kiss me - which I dont know if thats my own insecurity or a mutual tension, because when I pulled away he put his arms bakc, bringing us into a second hug.

He knows I'm in a long distance relationship, and I honestly cannot tell if he likes me and is trying to test the limits here, or if he's genuinely just a touchy guy. I dont want to make a wrong assumption and lose a good friend or my boyfriend.

Please help!!

Hey!

I've been seing this guy for four dates. We get along very well, we text everyday and have a lot of inerests in common. He usually initiates conversation, asks me about my day and is interested on my take on things I'm passionate about. He also recommends me books, music and we joke around a lot. However, he is not very expressive and he is very rational. He has told me I'm pretty and that he likes me. We haven't had sex but we have kissed passionately, he gave me little kisses in my face and in the forehead when we kissed... he also caressed my hair a lot while kissing me and when saying goobye he kissed me and then came back for another kiss. It was really sweet.

However, he knows i'm dating other guys and he is dating another girl. According to him, he hasn't kiss her, they've been on one date. Today they are going on their second. I like him but he said he doesn't want to rush into a relationship because he has done so in the past and people end up being hurt. I don't want to get hurt, so I keep my options open. Its weird because he is really affectionate and passionate when he kisses me but no disrepecful. Actually, when we were kissing things got a little heated and he interrupted me to help me with a paper I had to turn in for class.

What do you guys think? I'm going out tomorrow with him to eat ice cream and I don't know his thoughts... is weird. Because on one hand I'm sure he wants to get to know me or else he wouldn't text as much or ask me about things that are important to me. He also is interested in the things I like. Although, he could also be bored and just wants to talk to someone. On the other hand, he seems reluctant to a relationship and like I told you he is also keeping his options open with the other girl.

Hi there,

Can a guy fake affection?

I met a guy that is really attractive. We went on “two dates” and had a good time, we have things in common and we laugh a lot. He knows i’m dating other guys and I know he started dating a girl. We are not compatible in more meaningful things like he doesn’t like to take risks in relationship and thinks things through a lot. Me, on the other side, I’m more impulsive.

Like I said this guy is really attractive. We kissed in the second date and it was amazing. I saw him yesterday and we saw a movie in my house. Nothing happened. So I asked him if he was weirded out about our third date, he told me that he didn’t wanted to assume anything and that he wasn’t sure if I wanted as a friend ( We discussed our other dates) I told him I was seeing what happens. He knows I want something more serious and he said that he can’t rush into things because it has happened in the past and that he doesn’t want anyone to get hurt. I told him I didn’t wanted to stop seeing the other guys but that I wasn’t going to get intimate with him, because we weren’t sure of what we wanted.

We started kissing and he was really affectionate. He caressed my hair a lot and gave me kisses in my face. The kisses were passionate but also very sweet, he kissed me on my belly and in my forehead a couple of times. He caressed my hair a lot and stared at me a couple of times with a smile. He was smiling and I asked him if he was laughing about my messy hair- he said he was happy- although things got pretty heated he didn’t undressed me and interrupted things to help me with a uni work he knew I was working on.

After that we kissed a bit. We kissed passionately goodbye and that was it.

He was really affectionate, like my boyfriends haven’t kissed me so much or with so much affection. He really took the time and the kisses were sweet although they were passionate. Can he be faking it? He has expressed a coupl