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Search Results: how to know if he just wants a hook up
Are drunk words sober thoughts?
Backstory: this guy and I went on three dates and then went on a two week road trip with his friends. He recently just came back. I told him I was interested in him and I wanted to see where things go when he came back....
Anonymous
(25-29) So I hooked up with this guy, now what?
There is this guy at work and I really fancy him. We started to speak like 2 months ago, our mutual friend gave my name to him. He is clearly interested in me but he is extremely busy of his work so we had like a month or...
Peppermint21
Xper 3 Age: 28 Is better to cut off a girl or try playing her to your benefit when you are her “backup” option?
This speaking of girls you met on dating apps or casually in a social settings. They will give out their numbers, engage in small talk, etc. But I notice the following red flags: usually slow to respond to texts texts are...
Anonymous
(36-45) Friends with benefits wants a serious relationship, just not with me?
So I've had this friends with benefits for about two years now, we don't meet up that often anymore (like once or twice a month) because we're both busy people, but when we do, its always fun. We talk for a few hours, and...
Kimonono
Xper 5 Age: 33 He said he doesn’t call it friends with benefits but we aren’t in a relationship so what would you call it?
So as crazy as this sounds. I’ve been Hooking up with my guy friend I call it (friends with benefits) on and off for about 10 plus years. I admitted to him that I still have strong feelings for him. He was in a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why did he want me to record if he knew I wasn’t going to send it to him lol?
Me and my ex broke up recently and a few days later he got a room for us and we hooked up & he asked if i could record us off my phone and during the sex he was telling me to get everything in and all that and i was “like...
Anonymous
(25-29) If I’m pretty and have good hygiene and a healthy body why is it so hard for me to find a boyfriend?
I’m 19, 20 in a week I go to bars I get hit on a lot, i also generally get hit on sometimes at college but it’s always thirsty guys that act like fans bc they want one thing but I don’t think I am ugly, get compliments on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would a guy not want to pursue me after this?
A guy who i was recently seeing found out that i use to hook up with one of his aquaintance but it seems more like a friend based on how he reacted. The only thing is this happened long before i met this guy and now he...
Saralee8901
Xper 5 Age: 26 My boyfriend is dating me but it’s like he’s scared of commitment I don't know what to do anymore?
My boyfriend has broken up with me multiple times sometime I know I can be a handful but I know I make sure he knows I care about him etc. He has pushed me away then within the next hour tells me he’s scared and wants to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would he want to hook up again?
So my friend made me make a tinder account. I decided fine I would. I match with this guy and he asks if I wanted to be friends with benefits. I didn't say anything back because I just wasn't ready. Two days later he...
xElizabeth95x
Xper 5 Age: 30 Why wouldn't she text me back?
I met this girl last year on a dating app and I thought she was cool and pretty and I liked her so we dated for a couple of months. She was 17 and had never been with anyone and I was 20 and have. Then I didn't wanna...
Anonymous
(25-29) I'm thinking of putting a couple bikini pics on my online dating profile, but I'm not sure about it. Should I put them on there?
I'm a single woman trying to find my special guy via online dating. I'm not looking for hookups or flings. I'm looking for a long term relationship. With that being said I'm trying to decide whether or not to put up...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) He knows I have feels, why does he still talk to me? should I end our friendship?
I first met this guy on a dating app and I thought we had a pretty good connection and even hooked up with a couple of times. He told me he didn’t want any sort of relationship and we decided to become friends instead but...
Anonymous
(30-35) Am I overthinking it or has this guy suddenly lost interest after hooking up?
I met this guy on Hinge, he just transferred to my college. We messaged for awhile and he gave me his number, so we continued texting and he asked to see me that night. He took me to sonic and we talked for hours. It was...
southerngirl21
Xper 3 Age: 27 Can casual hook ups turn into something more?
i've been sleeping with this guy for about 2 months now. we don't text often, mainly because i'm very busy, except for the texts to arrange plans. we get along great and we're always have a good time together, even when...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can an old crush catch feelings in a friends with benefits situation?
so i recently got out of a year and a half long relationship about 4 months ago. just the other day i hooked up with a guy i knew from high school. we used to like each other but nothing happened since he was younger than...
citygawdess
Xper 5 Age: 25 Should I come clean about sleeping with someone else?
My boyfriend and I have been having problems. Mainly because his lack of care or effort. He has admitted today that he wants to be a better partner and he know he’s been treating me bad. Yesterday before he said all...
Anonymous
(36-45) I can't tell if this is normal or he wants something more with me?
so i recently got out of a year and a half long relationship about 4 months ago. just the other day i hooked up with a guy i knew from high school. we used to like each other but nothing happened since he was younger than...
citygawdess
Xper 5 Age: 25 I want to take it slow for once (sex) when first dating a girl. However that approach has always gotten me friend zoned which I HATE. Advice?
I always had sex early in every relationship I’ve been in my entire life. Truth is I want to take it slow for once. Actually have sex 2 months out vs 2 dates. Yes actually would like friends first but absolutely no...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why are guys like this?
This guy “friend” of mine I hooked up with. He unfollowed me after i rejected him then like 5 months later he followed me again he started liking and commenting on my posts than he started posting on his story things that...
Anonymous
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