Search Results: acted desperate

Where's the line between desperate, too aloof, and just right?

How do I act friendly enough that guys will want to ask me out and see I am interested but not come off as desperate? I know that not every interested guy will approach. So how do i encourage them?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Girls would never initiate the first date, right?

am I right to assume girls would never be the one to ask for the first date? coz there's this girl from my old job, and unless she is dragging me along for an ego trip, I think she is interested. And we have said in our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Is he a disappearing act or just busy?

So we finally caught up after a couple of months of chatting for a drink one night then he slept over at my place the next night as he hadn't decided if he was going to catch his plane home or not that week. Everything...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

If a girl acts desperate/crazy after a break up, do guys always see them as "crazy" or does it change over time?

I don't want to get back together, just curious if guys only reflect on how the girl acted after the breakup or remembers what she was like when you saw each other? He knows I'm chill in… I just did the typical girl...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is the whole "let a guy chase you" thing really true?

I've always heard that girls are supposed to let guys chase them or else the guy will lose interest, so girls don't initiate texts/calls, don't reach out, act as if they aren't always thinking about the guy. But if you...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How do I stop him from leaving?

I'm sure some of you will recognize my sn and think i'm terribly desperate to still be with this guy after all the posts I've made. So recently I caught my bf doing coke with one of his female friends. The way I...

miwaaal

Xper 6 Age: 35

Relationships

Boyfriend of 4years doesn't love me anymore and left - will no contact work?

Hi everyone really really desperate for advice and after reading this hope I can get some. My partner and I have been together 3yrs. Was always so so loving and romantic and generally just so caring for me. We went abroad...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why would a guy say he likes you but act so indifferent?

I have known a guy for a few years, we joke around and get along very well. He has always told me and mutual friend how he likes me, wants to take me out and blah blah. I never took him seriously because he flirts with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Male - Long Distance Confusion, help me out please?

Her and I have been 'friends' more like acquaintances for the past 6-7 years. More recently, we seemed to show each other our feelings toward each other, which was somewhat unexpected. For the first 2 months or so she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Can shy guys have a hard time replying to a Facebook message?

I messaged my crush on Facebook because I would like to get to know him better. As of right now we just talk when we see each other. He is a little shy and I know he isn't big on using Facebook , but I don't have his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Can it be tough for a shy guy to reply to a Facebook message?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

I don't mind texting first but don't want to seem desperate

Ok I know there are about a million answers about this on the Internet but I want to ask anyway. I met this girl in a nightclub about 4 weeks ago and we got along great. We've met up every weekend since then probably...

j2109c

Xper 5 Age: 34

Guy's Behavior

Would this get on anyone else's nerves?

I am sick and tired of my mates trying to set me up with girls on a night out. I am quite shy reserved and lack confidence but I'm not insecure about myself in any shape or form. Plus I am not desperate to get a girl...

whatyousaid

Xper 5 Age: 39

Dating

Can a hot guy be desperate in dating life? I think my best friend is kinda desperate lol.

First of all I am not trolling but I have a friend who is considered as hot.He is tall with 6 packs,smart and make good money too.He was dating one of this hottest girl in our town but something went wrong so they stopped...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Can't get attracted to guys I don't know, what do I do?

OK, normally I would think it's a good thing - I wouldn't go for a brainless guy just because of his gorgeous abs. On the other hand though, it makes it hard for me to approach a guy, simply because I don't care much for...

Slavanna

Yoda Age: 29

Family & Friends

Why do we keep toxic friends around?

I really don't understand it. The gossiping, cat fights, disrespecting boundaries and other sneaky shit. Some people have friends that back stab them at every opportunity and when they turn around, they suddenly act like...

confugirl

Yoda Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

I just can't find a guy with a "personality" I like.

I'm 18 and a girl. I've had only two relationships, my second was one I didn't regret too much aside from me screwing it up and him eventually turning into a jerk. I seem to only attract nice, pansy guys and while I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Feeling confused & shallow about my newfound popularity and attention from girls.

Sorry for the long post. Recently I started DJing in pubs, and it's come along with a small amount of popularity. I guess you can't help but be noticed while DJing, but it feels weird to have girls approach me, they come...

NinjaPlease

Xper 5 Age: 41

Relationships

New vibe, should it be good?

I never have done good with women. I've actually never dated and still a virgin. I kissed a girl once, and she was drunk so I don't consider it a real kiss. The thing is, it use to bother me a lot. Maybe I was even...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why does my kindness scare guys away?

I am a sweet sensitive soul. When a guy shows interest I admit I do get overly excited and start thinking too far ahead. Guess its a dream to get married and all that. Anyway I find a guy I like. We get along. I can't get...

Shannon18

Xper 5 Age: 33