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So me and my boyfriend been together for 2 years
I have been on the pill ever since we started having sex last year and never missed any pill
I even take the sugar pills
So anyway, my period for this month hasn't started yet and im already on my 4th sugar pill
I usually start my period on the 4th sugar pill
So im freakin out
But my boyfriend always ask me everyday these past few days "have u started ur period yet?"

So anyway this was our conversation today:
boyfriend - are u on your periods yet?
Me - no it didn't start today. I better get it tomorrow or ill freak out
boyfriend - do u have symptoms like vomitting?
Me - nope
boyfriend - do u have acne breakouts? Usually u have em when ur about to have ur period right?
Me - yea i do but only few pimples right now
boyfriend - oh ok
Me - ok let me ask u a question.. what if i am pregnant? Did u want me to abort?
boyfriend - its up to you babe. Its your choice. Like im not a boy, i won't leave you. But you gotta think of the future. Like your future and mine. We are not financially stable yet. We have to be more settled. We gotta think about that. And plus you said your parents are not goin to be happy if u got pregnant. But its your choice at the end of the day. If we do get married in the future, we gonna have kids anyway... but just think about how we both have to focus and build our career first right now
Me - yea i know..
boyfriend - im ready for anything though.
Me - if i do get an abortion, are u gonna come with me or go to work?
boyfriend - ofcourse im going to go with you. What do u think I am? Im gonna be there for u
Me - ok
boyfriend - anyways lets not say anything more. I think u should be good. U didn't miss any pills right?
Me - nah i didn't
boyfriend - then i think u should be fine

Im 23 and he's 28

He says its "up to me" but deep down, he wants me to abort if i do end up getting pregnant.. right?
Should i be upset if he does?

But he's right.. i still need to build my career and dont want a baby right now but im kind of against abortion too
Im freaking the hell out

My boyfriend (22) and I met a few months ago and we hit it off instantly. This was before he got kicked out (his roomies want to jack up his portion from $550 to $750 even though the total rent hasn’t changed).
He’s so motivated, loving, intelligent, and sweet. He truly cares and appreciates me, and he respects me.
He’s gone through a life of child abuse, a broken home, and a lack of support. He takes care of what he needs to and has taken care of himself, by himself, for so long and I admire that about him so much. He’s such a strong person.. I can’t even imagine what he’s had to go through.
He has a job, but, in California, it’s impossible to live off of minimum wage unless you know somebody. I can’t let him move in due to my roommates and other factors.
Despite him having a rough time, he never asks me to support him financially or guilts me into staying.. of course I treat him when I can (willingly and on my own), but he never once tried to use me.
He’s such a good person, but the stigma of being homeless and living in the back of a van... it’s just very overwhelming.
Am I stupid for staying? Am I making a good choice; staying for somebody I see potential in?