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Ok i really need your help on this pretty please guys :)

basically i have a gay best friend - a dude. we have been friends for 9 years now and done a few trips together - well that was before i met the man i love. a year ago i met him and my world changed. i was actually on a trip with my best friend when it happened.

lately my best friend is acting so bitchy and selfish. normally he's pretty good at asking how i am and all that - but lately its all about him. given, his father passed away last year - i flew over to germany where he lives and attended the funeral and gave him support - i was the only friend that came. ironically, im the one he is sort of punishing and ignoring now.

he's met my man numerous times and i guess they were somewhat competitive? they have had a few little arguments and I've tried not to interject as i resepct that they are each individuals. but lately i feel like he's just being mean to hurt me. i have always been there for him and my own father has cancer - and he hardly checks in. my partner got sick a while ago and he would never ask unless i brought it up.

now - he tells me 'oh sorry, just so busy' and that he's coming over in may - well, he didn't even ask my plans or if i can do that - just tells me.

in his apartment, there's pics of me and him on our trips - everywhere. and this year he made a 2015 calendar with pics of just us. sometimes i feel like he does it or is doing it, just to say 'she's mine' or...maybe im off. i dont know just feels weird. and sometimes he will totally spoil me...once on a trip in italy i woke up and he was in the room just staring and smiling at me - it was the first time i felt uncomforatble - and vowed not to travel with him alone again - and i never have.

i love him as a friend, but he's being such a pr*Ck lately. seems my needs as a friend are irrelevant, and i really want to break up with his as a m

I feel like everybody has gone through that at some point, it seems like? At least, I have. The feelings don't last long but I've been weirdly attracted to close friends at certain times. And no, I'm definitely not gay. I've heard the phrase "you aren't true best friends unless you've had a gay moment" before, and I'm wondering if anyone else agrees

First off, save the "overlooking nice guys" & "girls just want bad boys" banter for another post, it does not apply here.

So, I've never had the best luck with guys. I try to be careful with who I let into my life. I believe in being friends first and some how I still end up with a lying loser. 1 guy stole money from me, 1 was hiding a girlfriend at another campus, 2 was married, 1 might be gay, 2 said they were leaving their girlfriends, but failed to mention a new one was already setup, & this last one scares me a little, he's quiet but he gets aggressive. Men who are married/engaged/involved are drawn to me.

These guys are from different stages in my life. They are all educated, age ranges 25-32, & different races, I don't discriminate lol!

I'm at my breaking point. I have yet to have an adult relationship & have been abstinent for 8yrs, because I have yet to meet an unselfish trustworthy guy. At this point I'm ready to accept just about anyone. I want the experience of trying to maintain a relationship.