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I dated him for 3 months, we had me through Eharmony. Things were going really well, then something happened. And things just weren't the same. We almost broke up, he had said let's just be friends but we ended up staying together. 3 weeks ago we decided to go on a break. And just last week I ended it officially with him. I kinda did it in a text and I wish I did it differently but I was scared to see him, and he would pull me back in.

I wasn't getting what I wanted in the relationship. Since the incident, he stopped being affectionate, no kissing, etc. We never had sex, he never asked me to be his girlfriend (although he says he told his friends I was even though I had NO IDEA!!!)

I has to end it. He also would go days not texting me, and we hardly saw each other.

I loved him, I told him that. He didn't say it back until the relationship was ending and he said he loved me in a voicemail.

I still miss him, even when I am hanging out with this new guy who has been more attententive to me, more affectionate, compliments me way more than the other guy ever did. Our first date he said to me, "you are more beautiful in person." I was speechless, best compliment ever.

Even when I am with him, my mind sometimes drifts to the other guy (my ex), and he's usually on my mind at night.

I miss him, and I still cry sometimes but not as much as I thought probably cause the new guy is keeping me stable. Without him, I'd probably be a mess and depressed.

I also keep looking at my ex's Facebook page, I still have pictures of him and one of us together. I did delete him as a friend. It I still see his posts.

How long is this gonna take to get over him? I feel like I gave him a piece of my heart and I don't think I will ever get it back. It hurts and I still care about him. But I deserve better. He had even walked out on me when I was crying when I asked him to stay, I needed him that night and he wasn't there for me,

I've been talking to this guy for a about a month now. He's unlike any other guy I've talked to before and is very respectful and kind-hearted. I don't usually date because of how bad I've been treated in the past (which he knows about) but he treats me like a princess when we're together in person. We're both always so busy but he's even busier than I am so I hardly see him. I haven't seen him in over a week and he hardly texts me back anymore, now that he's further into his graduate studies. He said he was too busy to hang out a couple of days ago and said "how about tomorrow instead?" so I said sure. The next day I didn't hear from him at all, I was pretty upset about it but didn't want to come off too strong by telling him. He finally sent me a text later that night saying he was busy but didn't at all address blowing me off or apologize. As if it never happened. But just when I think he's lost interest he'll say or do something (online though..) that will throw me off again. When we started talking he was really communicative and asked me out a lot, but for over a week now I've been the only one really trying to initiate conversation or to get him to take a break to hangout. Not that I think it makes a difference but he's introduced me to his friends already who get along with me so well, and his family knows about me already. I give him a lot of space and even stayed silent all weekend thinking he'd message me to see what was up, but nope, not a single text or call. He is all about taking things slow and we've even discussed "where we stand" which is that we're just getting to know each other and going on dates but not in a relationship. When we had this talk he said he was so relieved that I didn't see us as a couple yet.. I think he may be scared of commitment. I can't help but to feel I'm over thinking this though because although his behavior & responsiveness has changed a lot, we still aren't really "in a relationship" just dating. What are your opinions?

I have a crush on this guy, but his best friend has a crush on me. I'm really close with both of them, and we hang out all the time. But the guy who has a crush on me got jealous of his friend since it was always the three of us hanging out (and the guy who had a crush on me was getting left out). So one day, they had an argument over me and now the guy who i had a crush on doesn't even hang out with us. Also, when i see him around the halls its like he avoids me. My heart breaks every time i see him just walk past me like we're strangers. It was a tough decision choosing which guy i liked more out of the two, since they both treated me so well and were fun to be around. But my heart goes with my original crush, the guy who was told to back off from me. I really want to solve my problem and to get the two boys back to being friends again, because I don't want to be the reason on a broken friendship.