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I am in a sexually monogomous casual relationship. I thought it was just sex but it has now been morphed into what feels like a traditional dating experience. She had 2 ex bfs that forced her to have sex against her will. she's hated exclusivity titles sense then.

We had sex on the second date. She slept at my place but we couldn't sleep with stuffy noses. The third date was her place. Second sex time. She said she couldn't sleep. Then we went on a 4th date. It was a non sex coffee date. The 5th date went to my place. It was the third time having sex. I came inside her for the first time. She couldnt sleep and left to go home at 230am. She said she couldn't sleep. Then kissed me goodbye twice and apologized.

Should I be concerned she can't sleep? Is it normal?

I asked her if she got home okay. A few minutes later she said she did and ".. again, im extremely sorry for leaving abruptly. Please dont take offense."

I told her I understood. She said, " Thanks for understanding. I still feel like a little bit of a jerk. Well it was fun hanging out with you! Enjoy the rest of your weekend!"

Should I be concerned?

I'm sure this has been brought up here before but idc its fun to poke the hornets nest.
So my sister and her fianceé were having a 'heated discussion' about this the other day.

She was angry that he left the toilet seat up, because she went in and sat down without looking and basically fell into the toilet (i think that's what she said).
So in her world men should have to 1. Put the seat up so they don't piss on the seat and 2. And then put the seat back down so women don't fall in.
While women can just waltz into the toilet, do their business, and waltz out without worrying about the position of the seat

In my opinion this second toilet clause is horseshit, if you don't look before you sit down its your own damn fault what happens to you and you can't blame someone else. This applies for both genders.
Thoughts?