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We've been seeing each other on and off for almost 2 years (I was away for half a year in between though), it has always ended and started again, and he's always the one to start it again. This time he tells me he can't give me definite answers, but he can't be a boyfriend right now. we have a really good time together, we're there for each other during bad and good times, we're close, there's no denying it, we know things about each other no one else knows and sometimes we'll just look at each other, and it's like we just know, sometimes full on arguments have ended that way. I know he really cares, he never pushes me, especially if I don't feel like having sex. He was in just one relationship for so so long and he just got out of it and says he doesn't want to waste this time in his life and get old and feel like he missed out. that worries me though, that statement. we haven't told each other we love each other, but I know usually when people do what we do for each other, and say how much we like and appreciate the other, love is there. I think he's very unsure of his life, and he also says that when I stress him out it pushes him further away, yet he always comes back to me. a friend of his told me other women wasn't the problem, he's just in a strange place in his life. I want to keep seeing him, but I'm worried about it not going well again, he wants to give me what I want, but I know it;s hard for him and right now he "can't be a boyfriend." I asked him if he meant he could never see himself in a relationship with me and be in love with me and he said no that wasn't it, but that his views on things were changing all the time and he was confused. I want to be there for him, I want to see him, but I'm worried about how I can get my own needs met from the relationship.