Search Results: i became insecure

Why are my friends acting different after I lost weight? What do you think of all this?

I lost 100 lbs. I used to be 224 and now I'm 123. Before I lost weight, I was super insecure and my friends would always tell me things like, "No guy likes you because you're weird and fat.", "You're ugly, but you have a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How does a confident girl look at herself?

I want te be more confident but Im insecure by nature. So what kind of mental attitude should I have towards myself so I can become more confident? What is your self image? How do you look at yourself?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Was it an abusive relationship or am I the wrong one?

I was with someone for three years, he did a lot of good things for me and all he ever asked of me was to lose weight and become attractive to him as well as quitting my job... I ruined the relationship because I could...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Am I the problem or is he? Abusive confusing relationships?

Hi, I don’t normally post on these things but I am so confused & hurt. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and after the first 6 months it became a bumpy ride. We seem to argue constantly and can’t agree on...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, do you think the older we get the more insecure about nudity we become?

When me and my friends were in high school we saw each other butt naked, all the time. We went skinny dipping, we showered together at the gym, we changed together at each other's houses. But now that we're all older my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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How to accept the fact that am not a light skinned complexion girl?

Unfortunately coming from a Asian household while being a child I was fair skin toned and as time has gone on all I hear from people within my family and community as I grew up is that I've become dark and now i feel...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to raise my self esteem?

I am confident in myself when it is about my intellect and professional achievements. But when it comes to love, I figured that deep down inside of me I am convinced that no-one can love me. I dont have a basic sense of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he the one that got away or am I delusional?

Quick backstory- I'll keep it brief. I befriended a guy in high school and we became best friends immediately. This included late night calls, lots of laughs, he even came over and kept me company the day after I had...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Women who only give signs of interest when they get insecure that a guy is gonna get bored and find someone else?

If a girl is giving mixed signals, an effective remedy is to make them insecure that the guy is losing interest and will soon stray. When they become insecure about the situation, they'll usually flirt heavily and give...

Billyscotter

Explorer Age: 30

Guys, how can I be a better girlfriend?

Hey guys, So I haven't posted on here before but I have read numerous posts regarding relationships and I'm hoping you can help. I have been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend of now 6 months. Him and I met at...

missaquarian25

Xper 4 Age: 34

Wondering how people feel about getting with or dating young mums, whether its a huge no etc?

I am a teenage mother, and have been single for quite a while now. My son is 16 months old, and I have primary care of him. Being young, and single, I do enjoy the idea of having a non-serious relationship with someone...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I go for something with this guy?

This is a really long story, but I'm so desperate please someone just save my life and help with this. I want everybodys opinions. Someone has probably tried something similar. The story continues in the comments. This...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

The Journey to the Real You (Your Identity is Not a Label!)

Hello my name is Sawno and I am (striving to be) Myself. - I am super passionate about computers and games. - I act out of positivity and love. - I am very caring of those I love. - I am curious but stubborn. - I...

sawno

Master Age: 32

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I know I did the wrong thing but did she?

I snooped through my girlfriends phone. I know a lot of you will likely give me s**t for that so I'll save you the post. Yes, I know it makes me an immature, insecure piece of garbage, and I don't deserve her. That...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys who have been on 6-7 dates with a girl, have you ever panicked when you didn't text for a day or she hasn't initiated for a couple days?

This girl I've been going out with for about a month and a half. We've been out on 6-7 dates. We told each other we like each other. We've had sex and make out every time we hang out. I think we've become really close....

Anonymous

(36-45)

A man in need of serious help and advice, guys what should I do?

Me and my girlfriend had been together just over two years, living together for well over half of that time, I let my own insecurity's and fears get the better of me, so much so that i actually ended the relationship, i...

AverageJ3007

Xper 4 Age: 35

Whose fault was this?

In university I was involved in a student org. I met a nice guy and we became friends. I found out later on that he “ (guy a) liked me but that he was transferring to another school B. That was ok with me as I didn’t have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get out of this hell-hole once and for all?

I was just reflecting on myself and so I thought I would write this down to see if others shared the same opinion as me. Last year, an incident changed my life. I won't talk about it, but it was pretty bad and...

HeyThereDreamer

Xper 5 Age: 29