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im in college 2nd year, and sometimes i come across people MY AGE who have kids and I'm like WFT?

yesterday i met someone who looked like a pretty decent guy to me, but later i found out he has TWO kids.. he couldn't have been more than 23? i mean i try not to judge but it must be hard trying to make a future for yourself when you have 2 othes to worry about as well. i don't think I'm goin to be friends with him anymore... am i being judgmental or reasonable..

(i have big plans for my future i dont think i could date someone with kids...)

I'm in my mid 20s and I have no intention to have children. People gave different types of reactions every single time I told them about the fact that I don't want any kids. But most of them usually it would always be the reactions of shocked and judgmental. I don't hate kids because I do baby sit some of my nieces and nephews so that makes no sense, it's just I don't kids of my own. Been in so many relationships but I just can't find a guy that has the same thought of not wanting to have kids just like me. Most of them asked me to marry them, okay I'm ecstatic by that, but then when it comes to "the kids talk" it turns me off and I will end things, immediately.

I have reasons not to have kids,
1) I'm afraid I might not being able to raise them properly
2) It'll be hard for me to have my me time
3) My career is my baby
4) Why would I invest onto someone that would yell at my face saying " I hate you mom!"
5) Being parents = hardest job ever

Some might despise me for my reasons above but that was my opinions on why I don't have kids, so feel free to vote and I would like to read some of you malicious comments (kidding) :p