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I've had a guy friend for almost 2 years now.

i feel like we know and understand each other

In the fall we went to an event together, although I'm in a serious relationship with someone else, it felt like a date. He was really chivalrous and something clicked. I realized I had feelings for my friend. Over the next few days I analyzed our friendship (texts, FB etc.) I noted some signs he MIGHT also have feelings for me. I recalled a time he had sent me a romantic song to listen to, and was a bit anxious for me to listen to it. I told him it was beautiful but did not want to probe him for meaning at the time it was sent, or open any doors, since I was in a serious relationship.

After realizing my feelings, I tried to arrange a meeting to talk to him about them. he was unable to meet but really wanted to know what I needed to talk about. I texted him that I have feelings for him and that it would be fine if he had zero feelings back, I just wanted to be honest and figure things out.

his immediate reply was "lol are you serious?" I confirmed, yes. He then said he'd like to forget the matter came up and have things go back to normal. Later that evening he sent a softer more "don't worry about it, it happens" kind of response.

Since then, we saw each other around college as friends a few times, he always held doors for me etc.

Then, over 2 months from when the text exchange occurred he asked me to meet him to help with some school. By this time I had almost forgotten my feelings. When I met him this time he'd had more than a few drinks and was being affectionate (gave me a big hug, kissed me on the cheek, and put his arm around me) I told him I didn't want him to do anything he'd regret while drinking, he confirmed he wouldn't. He kissed me, slow, long, no tongue and alluded to wanting to go further. We have not talked toomuch since. I tried to ask how long he'd been attracted to me and he 'LOL don't ask that type of question" to that. Any insight?

So, to try and keep it short. I have just ended a six month relationship and I am having doubts it was the right thing to do. my reasons: He just didn't seem that in to me. He is not an affectionate person. No kissing, no cuddling, no holding hands, unless it was in the bedroom when HE was in the mood. 8 weeks in to the relationship I discovered his online dating profile was still active and he'd been signed in 3 days prior. We talked about it, he said we'd never had the talk of being exclusive, that he hadn't been on there, and wanted to be in a proper relationship with me. He never deleted the account, last signed in 2 months ago. I really threw myself in to the relationship. I looked after his dog for 2 weeks whilst he went on holiday with 2 other women. When he got home he couldn't have been less interested in me but he gave me a key to his house. When I mentioned we never left his house, I've never met any of his friends, basically, where was this going? He said he needed space because he didn't know. I gave him space. He said he still didn't know long term but wanted to carry on the relationship. 2 weeks later I found pictures on his laptop of him naked, holding a sign of a username and swingers web address, when confronted he said they were old, I said they were taken 6 weeks in to the relationship, he said he had only been a member a couple of days for messages to get himself off to? I forgave him, he said he knew what he wanted now, a proper relationship, to move forward. Since then he has been the perfect boyfriend, we've left his house as a couple twice last week. Last night he went away again. He didn't ask me to look after the dog, he said he'd get a dog sitter because he didn't want to take advantage of me. He didn't get a sitter, he left it alone a whole day and night - for the last six months I have driven the 40 minute each way journey to his house 3-4 times a week because he said he couldn't come to my house because he couldn't leave the dog?