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If a girl meets or hears about a taken guy and fancies him she will want that particular guy whereas if a guy meets or hears about a taken girl he will not want that specific girl but a girl similar to her?

This q comes from a discussion I had where girls were accused of being more likely than guys to break up someone elses relationship (see homewreck) because if they like certain traits in a guy they would rather have that same man than too look for another compared to guys.

Natural of course, no fake.

I have really, really extremely long eyelashes and they're 100% real, they're dark for about two thirds of their length yet they don't look disproportionate, I have thick eyebrows and thick hair too.

But long eyelashes usually are supposed to be a feminine trait, I absolutely love it when girls got long eyelashes, it makes them look so pretty and so attractive, also many girls enhance them or put on fake ones, guys never do it, whatever they have naturally they leave it be.

But I don't know how it's the other way so the question is for girls - do you find them attractive?

Let's say you meet a guy, later give him the "lets just be friends" speech because certain parts of his personality are a turn off.

IN MY PERSONAL SCENARIO I'm too much of a blabber mouth and get myself into trouble. I can be a bit over bearing at times. I have a tendency to clash with this girl due to our personalities only in regards to the topic of "Dating"(not us dating, but any situation that involves dating). Like we basically have different opinions on scenarios and fight a lot about them. And I have a tendency to ask her for advice but not take it due to my stubbornness

Also I'm curious, if a girl is picking out undesirable traits for a reason she doesn't wanna date a guy, is that a way of politely saying she doesn't like him at all? Cause surely if there's a few undesirable parts, she can try the relationship and work with him to change it right?

And finally, how do I show a girl(while I OF COURSE date other girls, so I don't wait around) then I'm slowly working on my undesirable traits? And how long will it take for her to realize and give me a chance?

thanks again