Search Results: breaking up for someone else

How to get rid of this obsession?

I've come to the realization that I may be obsessed with my ex. She doesn't deserve it. When she ended it, she lied to me about all her reasons for breaking up with me (I found out later that she'd met someone else). We...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Suggestions for someone getting back to dating after a break?

Alright people, this is my current situation. I'm a 27year old man, single since 4 years. I was involved in a few relationships earlier, and also I never seemed to have trouble finding datable women or approaching them....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating in another era: If you could date in another year,which would it be?

Well, I don't know about everyone else. But, I think dating in this day and age totally and completely sucks! Way TOO many rules! Way TOO many turn on's and off's. And,way TOO many people breaking up for stupid reasons...

loveisbeautiful

Editor Age: 39

Is seeking comfort from someone using them? No hate comments pls

Brief history : I ran away from my abusive mom in Virginia and came to jersey by myself. We had been homeless for 5 years and I was working to sustain us and was diagnosed with lupus / had surgery. I came to the only...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm not sure but I think I wanna get back together with him? Should I?

Well my old boyfriend of four months had been trying to get a hold of me for a while now, he apologized but should I beleive him? Well here's the back story, I met him one day when I was hanging out with some freinds and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do people treat me like this? My entire f***ed up life in 3000 characters..

.Okay so my life is already upside down.. I won't take time to think and write this Because I need to get it all out RIGHT NOW, so just don't bother commenting rudely Because I already barely am on the verge of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

OOPS I messed up an she's out the door. What to do next?

It's been 4 months since our break-up. I did something really stupid, I apologized for it and she doesn't care she left. We have a history of breaking up and getting back together. I think this is it though and to be...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Is my ex jealous/want to get back together?

Quick background. We were together for 3 years. Going to get married, etc.. I had to move two hours away because of schooling and Army. She was going to come with, but couldn't find a job and her friends from home drove...

irishfan86

Xper 5 Age: 40

Would you ever talk about having kids with someone if you did NOT want to have them with that person?

Long story short: My non-declared/official boyfriend started randomly talking about having kids the other day. We're not explicitly exclusive (but we haven't seen anyone else since we started dating 1.5 years ago), and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

In my mind I do not know if I Can stand my In-laws to be sister.

Right now, not sure if I want to marry my current man. We have been engaged since last fall. Our entire relationship has been 2 years so far One of his sisters never got along with me that well. Her boyfriend's family...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

I want my ex back, need advice

It's been over 2 months since my ex broke off our relationship of 8 years. We've known each other for 15 yrs. He said he had no time for me between working & being in 2 bands. He said its something he had to do even if...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I need advice...please

My ex girlfriend and I dated for 2 years and she ended. I had my thoughts she left me for someone else as she dated a guy a week later. He's 30 she's 21. She contacted me various ways during the first few months of their...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why would ex message me even after saying she doesn't love me anymore.

So my ex of a very serious three year relationship told me a few weeks ago that she doesn't love me anymore because she dated someone else after breaking up. Right around the time of him "disappearing" on her, she started...

irishfan86

Xper 5 Age: 40

Flirting

Heartbroken, devastated... don't know what to do. Should I move on?

It's been 2 months since my ex broke off our relationship of 8 years. We've known each other for 15 yrs. He said he had no time for me between working & being in 2 bands. He said its something he had to do even if he...

Watzrox

Xper 3 Age: 43

Ever hit rock bottom with break up? Did it finally force you to move on?

I actually feel like a knife has been inserted into my stomach and is slowly being pulled into my heart. It hurts that bad. I sometimes I think I will never get over this pain. :( I am so angry at my ex, but inside I...

jaime76

Xper 5 Age: 50

Blindsided by breakup

Sorry this is so long but I would really appreciate anyone taking the time to read and give me advice/opinions. I need to know if anyone else comes to the same conclusion that I do. After a three and a half year...

cmr530

Xper 6 Age: 41

Problems with my relationship? Worth trying to salvage it? Or should I move on?

I moved to NYC one year ago. I meet this wonderful girl that I started to date. She was my roommate. In February I had to move back to TN to take care my house that I own, and my parents. During this time, my father got...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My boyfriends mum doesn't want me staying over anymore, how do I fix thing? :/

So my boyfriend and I met at college, however I became very ill so I had to go home this year to recover so it became a long distance relationship, his house is exactly half way between college and mine. Everything...

Anonymous

(30-35)