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So my girlfriend, who I've been with for about 2-3 months now, is obviously very tomboyish.

Just by looking at her you can't really tell, but you can sort of guess so. She never wears skirts and dresses... she only wears a dress on formal occasions. She usually just wears jeans or shorts. She also doesn't wear any make-up, or have any type of piercings... not even earrings. At work she says she wears pants instead of a skirt.

Her hair is also pretty short for a girl. I can't really describe it, but it's similar in length to Videl's (from DBZ) when she cut it while Gohan was teaching her how to fly. Sorry if that makes me sound like a weeaboo, but that's all I can compare it to, lol.

Personality-wise, she's also definitely a tomboy. Most of her favorite shows and movies and books all include some kind of violence and/or adventure or fighting... like Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Dexter, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Friends, etc. She also loves many anime. She's also very physically active, and loves swimming and sports and soccer and the such.

But despite all this, her outfits are always just so cute, and she always smells so good, and her skin and hair just feel so silky and nice whenever I feel them.

When I brought this up to her despite her being so tomboyish, she laughed and replied with, "All because I'm a tomboy doesn't mean I'm not into fashion or that I don't take care of my skin and hair."

So are tomboys usually like her, with cute clothing choices, a good smell, and really soft skin and hair?

So be aware... I'm 21, and haven't worn shorts or taken off my shirt in public since I was like 14.

I usually only wear long pants, and I usually wear long sleeves too, but if it's somewhere a bit hotter I'll just wear a regular short sleeve shirt... but that's the most revealing it gets.

This is due to me thinking it looks better on myself, and to my personal modesty standards... though I don't push my modesty standards onto others, nor do I think any less of them for dressing more revealing. Otherwise I might as well break up with my girlfriend... though she doesn't dress super revealing, she does dress casually revealing pretty often at times. Though her shorts don't show her butt cheeks, they still are very short, and she sometimes wears crop tops and sleeveless stuff, and at the beach she wears bikinis. But I personally don't care, her choice.

But either ways, the beach is my girlfriend's favorite place of all to go... we've been together for almost a year, but I haven't gone to the beach once with her yet. And she was quiet about it at first, but more recently she was like, "Come on sweetie, go to the beach with me! It'll be fun, I promise! I know you haven't worn shorts or taken off your shirt since you were 14, and that you have strong modesty standards, and I'm totally fine with that... but there's nothing wrong with breaking free from those standards just to go to the beach. Just stop worrying about it and go have some fun with me! My girlfriends are fun, but I want you to be there too!" And as she said that, she was hugging me and smiling at me, which was really cute, and it was hard to look her in the eye and say no... but I just didn't respond.

The main thing I'm worried about is people being surprised due to me breaking free from my usual modesty standards, and if someone I know besides my girlfriend sees me and is like, "Omg, I've never even seen your legs before!" But that's it, really...