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My boyfriends ex girlfriend has been giving him and I some problems the past month. April 6th, she busted into his house at 2am demanding I leave because her mom was kicking her out and she needed a place to stay. Her and my boyfriend have a history of 4 years. They lived in this house together, and it was in her name. The lease on the house has been expired since 2017. Him and his roommate have been paying month to month without a lease so the place is not in her name anymore. She decided to vacate the property back in July 2018, and says she has proof that she moved out. She left a lot of stuff here since July 2018. She abandoned her property. She’s been over at the house (before we met in January this year) and still has not gotten her stuff. She really did me dirty in the beginning of April, so when I came back after to live with him after he told her no she couldn’t stay here, I threw all her stuff away. Clothes she hasn’t worn since July 2018, items that HE bought her (because she never had a job and leeched off him) and also her cheerleading trophies. She’s pissed and she has been harassing him and i since the other day. I’ve already contacted police and made a report and they told her to stop, if not, further actions will happen. Now she wants to take me to civil court. Because she doesn’t live here anymore, it’s been almost a year since she moved out and she has yet to get anything, and I threw her stuff away (because the house needed to be cleaned and her stuff was just all in the way) how do you think this would play out if this goes to court? Usually she’s all talk. But we’ll see.

Cutting the back story short, I was in an emotionally draining and somewhat abusive relationship. My ex used to cheat in ways that were mostly verbal ie suggestive texts and pics, just never really physical. But because of him going back to his ex, he forced me to get an abortion using his friends and family. I always tried to give him whatever I could, I worked after I terminated the pregnancy in order to share costs with him. I ended up severely depressed and got hospitalized. He never once visited me.

Fast forward to one and a half year after the abortion, couple months ago, I broke up with him. I got close to a friend who is always there to listen to me, and I liked how he was so kind to me and literally to everyone around us. Somehow I wished that this was my boyfriend. Thereafter, I broke up with my boyfriend as I couldn't get rid of the worsening depression he was causing me and also I wanted someone who is kinder like my friend.

My friend wasn't looking for a r/s as he was always busy working, and somehow we are close and yet I know so well that I'm in the friendzone. To keep our friendship, I rather keep things simple. I mean, I feel like my friend deserves way better. Now my ex knows that there are other guys trying to get me to be their girlfriend, but I'm tired of a r/s. My ex bought me things he never used to get for me. He became so nice overnight that I wasn't sure that this was the same guy with me before. Well.. it might be the sex, but I don't really feel like someone can change permanently? It could be that he felt threatened and hence was trying to win me back. But it's suffocating me, that and other guy's attention to me. I just want to be alone, and I'm almost sure that I don't want my ex to be a potential s/o. Any thoughts on what he's trying to do?

We used to be friends with benefits, he said he didn’t want a girlfriend but also asked me to spend the night. The friends with benefits lasted for a month or so but I got back with my ex boyfriend. He unadded me. 1 year later, we haven’t talked but I’ve missed him and my ex and I broke up (for good). If it were you, and I readded you on snap, would you add me back? Would you want to be friends or hook up or date? Or hate me?

i really care about him.