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I've known him for a few years but he was always kind of awkward and quiet so we really didn't know each other well. For the past year though he's warmed up to me and we've become good friends.

We have a lot in common. We think the same, we have the same sense of humor, we play video games together, and we hang out a lot. We text regularly. We can have long conversations about deep stuff but we can also be silly and tease each other. He initiates conversations a lot and invites me over to hang out a lot. We have the same circle of friends. He's friends with my other girl friends but I knew him first, hang out with him more, and talk to him more (especially since we game together).

He's told me before that he thinks it makes more sense to be in a relationship with someone you're close friends with (which I agree with). He's really not the type of guy that's going to obviously flirt with me though and I wouldn't pick up any signs of flirting anyway because I'm oblivious when it comes to that. So what do you think?

I met a guy on a dating site, he's 8 years older than me, which isn't a problem for me. He's been married once and has 2 kids. He's incredibly handsome, and has been very respectful to me. We've swapped photos, we text and have talked on the phone once. We have been chatting for about 2-3 weeks now and we've both mentioned how we'd love to meet. He has such a fantastic sense of humor, i love people who makes me laugh, not to mention we have the same sense of humor, like creepy jokes too soon.. lol. Though the only cons I can think of is he's one) an inch shorter than me 2) he lives in a different state. Now we're only about 4-4.5 hours away from each other... but that's still a good hop and skip. Granted my ex was 1.5hrs from me, at one point 2.5 and we made in 2 years. But I'm nervous about traveling that far to meet someone, I do own a gun and pepper spray lol but I don't think I'd need to use either.. I say id travel bc I've always wanted to go to a certain area of the state he lives in, I live in the middle of nowhere with nothing close by lol. Also, about his humor.. we had just swapped phone numbers close to Thanksgiving and I texted him, i got a reply, then a message from another number asking why I was texted her husband.. and they had 5 kids together... then I got a pic of a woman, a man and him.. saying they were his extended family and had to break me in right.. which I found hilarious after the finding our it was a joke. He said he had no idea until after the message was sent, they said his jaw dropped.. but anyways, he told them about me.. and a buddy at work as well he told me today he showed him a pic I had sent him this morning. Any advise on meeting, and experiences with this? Did it work for you?