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I like to dance.
I never really cared what guys thought about it until I went on a date with a guy years ago and he used the excuse of me liking to dance at dance clubs as a reason to break things off, he said even if I never did it again, I did in the past and it's ruined everything. I was happy to be rid of him. Dancing was so pure and joyful for me.

I rarely, almost never dance with men. I figure the majority of guys don't even like dance. I did a few times in partner dance classes. It was so fun.

Now I dance around the house and am silly but it's kinda disappointing that I'll possibly find a man who doesn't like happy dancing around the house.

Guy I've been talking to for 3 weeks says that he's attached to me, never wants to lose me, I'm really important to him, etc. He's ignored me these past few days but actively watched my story.
I kinda got pissed and texted him, and he gave me an excuse.
"His snapchat wasn't working. "
I said "sure"
He said "whatever"
"I was getting a new phone too and I wasn't trying to sass him" (even though I was, b/c I was mad)
To which he says "it sounded like it"
I said "pft, I know when someone chooses not to talk to me, I'm not dumb. If i didn't like you as much as I do, maybe I wouldn't be caring so much."
He says: "Then let's just not talk then, I am who I am. I isolate myself frequently.
I said "I wanna keep talking to you, I really do"
Him. "The just understand that I am all over the place. Ignore everyone because I need my alone time"
I said "okay"
He said "It's not you, it's how I deal with things. I just realized I was being too anti social"
I said " I overreacted b/c I didn't know what was going on, I shouldn't have made assumptions, I think it could help if we got to know each other on a deeper level"
He said "That will have to be for another day, but you are a good girl"
I said "Im a good girl in what way?"
He said "Are my friend in the very least I am so disjointed from life that rn who knows"
I said everyone likes to have someone they can trust and talk to, etc. I asked if we're friends or if he's friendzoning me"
He said friends ill never friend zone you
I said that text made me smile, it's hard to explain but I'm sure we both know why
He didn't reply, which is okay :) But I was wondering if I am in the friendzone. We also sext, but I don't show a whole lot, and he also makes me a part of his life, and reassures me that he doesn't want me to feel like I'm being used. we've talked about wanting to see each other in real life