Search Results: scared of getting hurt

How to make my ex feel better I dated someone else?

My ex and I were apart for two years and reunited recently. When we were apart, I dated another guy for a year and a half who I was close with but felt no passion for - my ex was single for a year and dated one girl for...

helpha

Yoda Age: 31

Dating

What should I do?

So here's the situation I'm 23 been on multiple dates but never had an actual girlfriend. I've never been hit on, complimented on my looks, never had a valentine, never been to prom, I've never been cared for or loved by...

j50312

Xper 2 Age: 31

Relationships

How do you say goodbye to someone who won't say goodbye, just ignores you and it's been weeks? Why don't people if they cared so much say good bye?

I guess I hurt a guy friend by trying to end the friendship because we were both getting feelings and I got scared, I realized my mistake too late and have apologized but it's been over a month and he hasn't responded to...

LoveJesusLoveGod

Xper 5 Age: 46

Relationships

Please help me?

My ex and I haven't been together for 5 years now. But it is always so hard for me to be okay when I see him. Little back story: We dated for a year and a couple of months, he was my first just about everything....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why do I still have all these emotions (Sorry so long but I really need help)?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Distance is breaking us up before we're even together. What do I do?

I met this guy a month before I transferred universities. He developed a crush on me and flirted with me knowing I'd be leaving soon. I didn't feel the same way until shortly before I left when a lot kind of fell apart...

DiamondRuby

Yoda Age: 28

Relationships

What are the signs that he's not into her in a serious way?

My friend who's a guy told me how guys have a bad habit of keeping girls around by not saying definite answers which I understand because I'm kind of going through it. Sometimes I feel like I'm just a last resort for this...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is he interested or just FLIRTING for fun? Am I reading too much into it?

We are still just getting to know one another. This is what's been going on: We met a few times at a concert, play, movie hanging out with mutual friends. He is a filmmaker and wanted an excuse to hang out, so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Should I keep talking to this guy?

So I'm 18 and met this college grad student (he's 23) at a party. I'm a freshman, majoring in nursing. Since November, we've been talking almost every day (phone/text). We hung out about three times. I just wish I didn't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

College freshman talking to a college grad student? Really need advice?

foodandfaith

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Can a girl you dated for a few months have a huge impact on you then your previous girlfriend?

Have you been in a situation where you just got out of a relationship, let's say it's been a year & some months but your last partner did a lot to you that hurt you in a way. The you meet this girl who blew you a way &...

FashionistaChick

Xper 7 Age: 35

Relationships

Messed up Sitch?

This is a bit messed up but bear with me. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we just moved to a new city. a couple months ago he got a message on FB from a girl claiming to be his sister. he hasn't seen...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Why would someone show interest but then do something so hurtful all within a 24hr period?

I met this guy Friday night and we had an instant connection. Things really seemed to flow and everything felt so wonderful. We both had a couple drinks and decided to come back to my place were things continued to flow....

lace1228

Guru Age: 41

Dating

After 4 dates he wants to slow things down, is he still interested?

I was talking to a guy online and after a couple of weeks, we started dating. He bought me flowers on the third date and we had sex, everything was great and we slept together again on the fourth date. Now he says he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is my ex too scared to commit again?

I was with my ex for 8 years, we lived together and all was fine, I have a son from previous who he had a great bond with, we lost a baby 3 years ago and I wasn't the same, I pushed him away I hurt him I broke up with...

Leah85

Xper 4 Age: 40

Break Up & Divorce

How can I move past this? Why can't I move on? I feel like something holding me back?

I got really close to one of my guy friends who was my best friend. We started talking and acting like a couple. We had sex and he ended getting with some girl from another town the same night (said on her Facebook). He...

Peaceout915

Xper 5 Age: 26

Dating

Fell for this girl, should I tell her how I feel?

I started seeing this girl beginning of December, we hung out for about 3 weeks then I asked her out. She seemed to really open up when we were hanging out and enjoying my company. She was excited for the date. But after...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Found out my boyfriend of 7 years has lied all along but I'm still finding it hard. What can I do?

I was with my boyfriend 7 years lived with him for 2 years. He's had problems with drugs in the past but I thought we had overcome that but living with him brought all the paranoia and worry that he was doing it again...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Did you guys ever regret you turned someone down while being emotionally unavailable?

Like if you had a friend for a really long time and then you guys have a small "thing", but you yourself were too scared to take it further because of bad relationships in the past and a fear of getting hurt. Have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does he like me or just looking to hookup?

I just started working with this guy. He is on a two year visa here. From what I know, he's kissed two girls we work with. He chased after me at a concert a group of our friends went to, but I rejected him. He ended up...

Anonymous

(30-35)