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We met online 4 months ago, since then he used to text me daily and call me often. He told me he liked me etc.
We wanted to meet that week but couldn’t because of conflicting schedules. He said he didn’t want a relationship just casual sex, I agreed with him, but in the back of my mind I still wanted a relationship and was hurt as to why he didn’t want one with me. Im a virgin, and he isn’t. He said that we wouldn’t date or have a relationship just casual. I still agreed because I liked him I guess. But he got flakey and would sometimes not pick my calls or reply to my messages he wasn’t interested in going on any actual dates, so I got nervous thinking imagine if I slept with him, he would probably go MIA afterwards.

So i straight up sent him a text thanking him for being straight up with me and real and said we should leave things be, and not contact each other again.
He didn’t reply but read it. And since hasn’t attempted to contact me for 8 weeks. I saw this as a rejection.

8 weeks later he texts “heya, how ya doin?” when I reply he reads it and doesn’t reply. He texts me some other random stuff if I reply he doesn't respond. I was surprised he kept my number actually

Is he playing mind games, it doesn't make sense to start a conversation and ignore. I didn't take long to reply 10 minutes.
It wouldn't seem logical for him to see if Im interested because I won't sleep with him and I’m sure he has many other girls that he is sleeping with!!

Am I on the backburner? The thing is we never got to know each other on a emotional level, Does he want attention from me?
Was it to see if I’m still interested and willing to text?

last night I think he drunk texted me because it was after 12am and he texted me asking If I had slept with anyone since we last spoke. was this even a drunk text?
(all the texts were in a 1 week)