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Bad boy definition: A young man who has many characteristics of a naughty boy: he's independent and willful; he does what he wants when he wants; he doesn't follow trends, they follow him; he often looks scruffy, but hip; he's not looking for trouble, but there's a sense of danger about him. For these reasons and more, he's irresistible to women. He's a heartbreaker with five o'clock shadow.

Last time I dated a guy. He acted nice to get a date with me. But I felt the sense of danger and all the things they mention in the definition above when I met him twice. Thats when I ran and declined to see him again. I don’t understand why they label all girls as desperately wanting a bad boy. I met a few and they actually make me cringe. They try to convince you to do things you don’t want to. Or slowly override your boundaries to get what they want from you. There is nothing appealing about a jerk or future sophisticated sociopath.

I find myself often offended by the million YouTube videos and articles on the internet that are brainwashing boys and man into becoming a bad boy (jerk) to get a girl because that’s what women want. I completely disagree.

My opinion is if you fall on a woman like me and act like a jerk. I will leave on the spot and I don’t stick around to get my boundaries eroded. Either you respect me or you can F*ck off (sorry for the language)

Are there anyone else that thinks this bad boy attitude thing is complete rubbish and counterproductive for social norms?

I had sex only once with someone I loved and he was the biggest jerk on this planet and dumped me quickly after that. We had been dating a year! So, my now boyfriend knows I kinda had sex but technically my hymen broke with this boyfriend, so I kind of diminished and said that the previous one didn't really enter me. But he did enter me, just my hymen didn't break that time with him. He also doesn't know I gave him oral. Anyway, he has the idea that I wasn't absolutely virginal before him. Does he really need to know the details? I feel guilty hiding but on the other hand, why would I tell him? He's not breaking up with me over that anyway and that would be unnecessary, right? He's not asking for details himself.