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My girlfriend and I are very loving but lack of sex is troubling me. We have a holiday booked for 7 days and she wants to get hostel. I said “why hostel if we can’t sex”, she said “we don’t need sex I can go without it”. I always argue about sex rejection or lack of it now and then, that I always initiate it and she never but she is willing if I try. I use to always initiate and she gets excited. Now she sometimes postpones it, after this movie babe or jigsaw puzzle. I’m always feeling blueballed and mentioned to her but she says she will try put more effort but never does as she use to. She says she feels turned off when I argue about this but I always tell her my view and make her feel very loved. She use to say we can have sex everyday if we move, now if I ask she says whenever it could be everyday, sometimes, maybe once during a week. Let it flow she says but I don’t want to be always expecting and get rejected (sometimes) as in tired or sick. I lost all my attraction when she used to be touchy feely with me, I always mention to her but no changes