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In business we write a MOU to communicate expectations clearly. So much of the problems in these often perplexing and confoudning times of relationships evolves around expectations, trust, and breaking assumed contract. If there is a stated position and even better... consequences, it would seem to resolve a lot of matters. Here's an example for which you can improve I'm sure. It doesn't have to be legal.

There are so many flavors of relationship now, it's baffling.

Intention of Relationship: Committed 2 people __ swingers __ Open MFM ___, FMF ___ Poly ___
Hookup only _____ friends with benefits _______ # of parties intended 1, 2, 3, X
[im sure there are more options here]

Termination of relationship: Provided in writing may be accompanied by phone call.

Ghosting Permitted: Y / N
Blocking Permitted: Y / N for periods of time

Therapy: Therapy has been discussed as a potential method of resolving conflicts: Y / N

Bond: Each will float a $100 bond to be held in escrow. Violation of contract prior to disbanding relationship results in forfeiture of bond. In event one party has mis represented their position, they forfeit their bond.

Signed: Him: ____________ Date: _________ Her: _______________ Date: _______

I am not saying have a lawyer draw this up, that it can't be changed or someone change their mind, nor is it legally binding. I'm saying... communicate and be honest. Other topics like... sex before marriage, living together and such seem appropriate.

I dated this girl on and off for almost two years before we got into a long term relationship. We kept breaking up because she was mormon.
I gave her church a chance and I didn't like it, and she said she would give our relationship a chance. And we had a wonderful and loving relationship for a while.
But she had decided for some reason to go on a mission, and I asked if she'd marry me before she left. She said she would but wouldn't formally accept it.
During her mission, she sent me a letter ending things and I had no way of contacting her while she was gone.
When she came back, I ran into her and I wanted to know why she did what she did. She said she couldn't accept our relationship and blamed our relationship failing on me. She kept changing what she was say and was inconsistent before walking off.

A few month later, I found out she got married. It tore me apart, but I figured this was the way things needed to be. So I moved on, even though I had the unfortunate accident of driving past her wedding while I was on a job.

It's been almost a year, and I have her blocked on everything. Because she used to stalk me when we were broken up.

Yesterday, I got a message from her. Asking if I would give her a chance to talk because she wanted to fix things and talk.
Today, I did some research. All I know as of right now is her and her husband got divorced. I don't know how long ago.

Do I hear what she has to say? She sent me a message this afternoon asking for forgiveness and saying she wants to move past what happened.