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Guy’s a friendly flat mate who I’m kinda eyeing. The other day as we were talking bout weekend plans, He told me I should join his group of friends which is him, 2 couples and another guy. He then said ‘ you have My number - just text me if you wanna come along’?

He once invited me Along to another spontaneous group event which i didn’t end up going as It was short notice. So I guess he could be hesitant about directly asking me to hang out. But does it sound like he does not really care if I go or not?

My "friend" told me she cheated on her current boyfriend of 5 years with one of his current best friends. I had an issue with it and brought it up to her after she told me about it. I just wanted to tell her that I don't like knowing, I felt bad for her boyfriend, and I'm going to distance myself a bit. She said she understood, but shortly after accused me of trying to break them up. Her boyfriend's best friend (the one she cheated with) also accused me of this. We made up for the sake of our friend group. Little did I know, her boyfriend also thought I had made stuff up and tried to break them up (I wonder who told him that).

3 months later and here we are, this girl and her boyfriend are trying to convince the others to not let me go on this trip. I was originally lied to about who didn't want me to come, and became very confused when that person texted me asking why I wasn't anymore. I eventually find out from my best friend that it's this girl and her boyfriend that are behind it.

I haven't heard from this girl once since I found out about this. But, oh boy, has she made sure to cling onto my best friend. I messaged the guys when I found out who actually didn't want me to come. I told them I wasn't coming on the trip, that I wish they wouldn't talk behind my back, and then exclude me w/o any outward explanation. That night, this girl asks my best friend if she can come over and talk, she talked bad about me to my best friend, and made sure to post a snapstory so I knew that she had been there. Then she asks my best friend to hang out the next two nights in a row. My best friend did, because she's recently started her first relationship with one of the other guys. I decided to remove myself from the groupchats w/ this group bc none of them were acknowledging what had happened. I was hurt, and it was a constant reminder.

Now this girl is posting on her ig story about "toxic people". I unfollow and then she changes her bio to "I love my life and I love my friends".

Me and my family moved to another neighbourhood few months ago, and my brother started to hang with few guys. He hangs with two of them, one is really friendly, talkative (M) and other friendly but quiet (P). I met them. Every time we hang I've notice that this guy M would lock eyes with me and came to stand next to me. Sometimes he tired to talk to me.

Few days after that, they went to another city for month, and this guy asked my brother to invite me to their group chat so we all can talk. Nothing much happened till they came home. As much as I know, they never went for caffe (they just hang) so this guy M one day invited me and my brother to caffe in group chat. I replayed him that we will come so he called me two times but I didn't answer (i didn't see on time). It was weird cause we've never talked much and he and my brother are like adore each other. So, four of us went for caffe and it was great. We looked at each other a lot, smiled and stuff, talked...

Few days after, brother and I went to hang with P and my brother said to me that i should sent something to M to surprise him. My bro acts like he something knows that I don't and it drives me crazy..

This morning we were hangning and few more (one girl and I have same name... but she's older than us). First when M came he smiled and talk to my brother. I've noticed he would walk to me, stand and then go back to P and looked at me. He did that few times like he was nervous. After that we all joked and stuff and than he talked to this girl that have same name like me. I reacted and he was like 'oh yea your name is also N'. After that he like little ignored me and I did it to him. Than he came again stand next to me and after that my brother and I left home.

He did that with name 2-3 times, but he knows a lot about me. He also something like he's zoning out on few second. I react on all this like idiot.. just smiled at him.
We are in our 25's but still I can't figure out what's going on.